I'm ONLY 20 years old and i feel that my preferences with cetain things (what makes me happy, what i do for fun) are way different than my friends. There's a college formal that they're all sooo excited for but for some reason - i just don't care for it. The past two years i've anticipated it and have been soo excited for it but unfortunately i couldn't go. This year, my schedule isn't as "crazy" and they're convincing me crazzzy that i "have to go". Now, I'm not as thrilled. I have my girlfriends being all excited picking the "perfect" dress and everything...and for some reason, it's just "high school" to me. Also, they were talking about who they caught hooking up with at a party this weekend and though i'm the "last to know", i couldn't have been more uninterested...to me, it would only be "exciting" for about 2 seconds...literally...what's wrong with me? Am i to "high maintinence"?
2007-02-05 14:52:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're not "too hgh maintenance." You've just figured out there are more important things to focus on other than clothes, guys, who's doing who, the big dance. You're friends are still acting like high schoolers. You've realized that real life is far more than that. Some folks never outgrow that high school mentality, they continue all their lives putting clothes and who's doing what before other things. You have decided that maybe studying and making good grades and learning all you can in college is more important and more interesting. Just tell your friends you'd rather not bother with the big dance and all that anymore. They will either understand or not. You'll find new friends who have the same interests and enjoy the same things (some of them at least) and you'll move on. It's part of growing up and moving into a more adult world.
2007-02-05 15:17:30 · answer #1 · answered by Inundated in SF 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldnt say you were to high maintenance. Because usually a girl that is would be more concerned about what dress she is wearing and what makeup etc. It just sounds like your growing out of the whole high school scene and there is nothing wrong with that.
Look at it this way your just maturing faster than your friends are and getting new interests then they are. Theres nothing wrong with that. They will eventually catch upto you, if not then just respect their feelings but I wouldnt push yourself to do things that you dont want to do. Your just growing up and different things are going to grab your attention as time goes by. good luck.
2007-02-05 23:03:23 · answer #2 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that has nothing to do with high matinence. this means that your values change. when you were a little girl you probably liked playing w/ dolls n stuff like that, now you can care less about dolls. thats just because you are growing up and when you grow up your values and the things you want change. good for you, your being more an adult this way
2007-02-05 22:57:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing's wrong with you. It seems you're becoming more mature and less intersted in those kinds of things. It doesn't seem to me you're high maintenance at all.
2007-02-05 23:03:23 · answer #4 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you. You've just hit the wall of rationality a lot sooner than most.
2007-02-05 22:58:04 · answer #5 · answered by crabskulls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not high maintenance!!!! , you sound down to earth , keep up the good work girls like you are few and far between..
2007-02-05 23:05:27 · answer #6 · answered by Confused 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That isn't being high maintence.
That's called growing apart from your friends.
Actually, it's called growing up.
-E
2007-02-05 22:58:21 · answer #7 · answered by ♠Gotham♠ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
omg. you're becoming a real person. quick! do a kegstand.
2007-02-05 23:01:29 · answer #8 · answered by Google™ me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋