2007-02-05 14:31:04 · 9 answers · asked by AngelMT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well hes in on a non violent crime he dont get into fights hes in on a probation violation that stints back to when he was 18
2007-02-05 14:55:02 · update #1
If it's love, you'll wind up waiting no matter what anyone says and you might be right....Babydoll, I don't know your jailbird, so I can't make any comment about whether or not he'd be worth waiting for, but I can tell you this, with absolute certainty: Loving an inmate is a VERY HARD ROAD....it's about slogging through endless paperwork, it's trying to keep up with rules that seem to change every week, it's waiting for incredibly expensive collect phone calls that might or might not come and when he doesn't call, praying with all your heart that the phones in the day room are just either too busy or broken and that he's not hurt or on lockdown, it's becoming obsessive about checking your mail and the heartsick feeling that comes over you when the letter you want so badly isn't there,it's about getting writers cramp and spending $20 a week on stamps and stationary, it's about dealing with either keeping it secret or dealing with disapproval of the relationship everywhere you turn and mostly it means living in a future you can't be sure of and that really does take a toll.
If I had a choice, I wouldn't do it, but I've loved the guy for over 20 years and I can't quit now...and I'm almost 40, so it's not as if I'm spending my youth dealing with the Dept.of Corrections...think carefully, Sweetie, it is a hard, hard thing to do and no guarantees.
2007-02-08 04:57:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should ask yourself why you are attracted to someone who has been convicted of a crime. Is he a person who can not control himself, does he pick fights, is he a thief, a rapist, child molester?
You should try to improve your life style and yourself by being with people who are productive to society, and have good moral character.
2007-02-05 14:50:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think in order to prosper in life we need to be around good people... now someone in prison hardly ends up there by mistake.
I would dump and move on.
2007-02-05 14:35:16 · answer #3 · answered by littlebrwneyemomma 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hellloooooo.....leave him....get some other guy....once hes outta prison hed b mean and bad...and u dont wana get hurt now do u????? look try to see other people....and no..dont wait for "HIM"
2007-02-05 14:34:30 · answer #4 · answered by me m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't if I were you; he did something to get in there, and whatever it was, you don't want any part of a criminal.
2007-02-05 14:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm, no... you don't want a prisoner as a b/f, especially a long term b/f...
2007-02-05 14:42:53 · answer #6 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends what he did. And if i had to guess, i'd say hell no.
2007-02-05 14:33:29 · answer #7 · answered by Danny S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why?
2007-02-05 14:32:57 · answer #8 · answered by trykindness 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-02-05 14:44:42 · answer #9 · answered by Michael Johnson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋