I want to ask him about it but i don't want to make him mad...he told me he got me something but i still havent gotten it yet...he says "i'm waiting for the right time" but i dont get it..it was a christmas present so it shouldve been given at christmas if ur waiting for the right time then its just an just because present...sometimes i don't get him..the other day when i asked him about it, he claimed he hasnt given it to me because it was really expensive and he doesn't want me to break up with and i guess have this really expensive thing. but it really doesn't make any sense what he is doing to me..can anyone help me with this i don't know how to bring it up without gettin him mad about me bugging him about it...which i haven't really been doing
how would u feel if you were in this situation and what would you do?
2007-02-05 14:31:01 · 6 answers · asked by t0xic_n_addictiv3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seems like he is going to propose you on the valentines day.
2007-02-05 21:09:58 · answer #1 · answered by AnSID 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..I've had a similiar situation.. My BF does not place my as the center of his life.. Anyhow, a few birthdays back, he was out of town playing for the summer (his choice), since he is off from work for the summer... and at least I was privileged he came back for my birthday (being sarcastic). When he got home on my bday, he didn't have a present, he said it was on order. Then on our way home from dinner, he stopped at the store while I was with him to get me a card. Then a week passed by, and he said it was on back order. I never brought the issue up.. But then over a month went by, finally asked him, he said he cancelled the order because it was taking the place so long... after 1 month and a half... he final excuse was I didn't give him any ideas for my bday, so he really didn't get me a present... he had lied... He had always gotten me something without my input.. He just used it as an escape... Yes, I would discuss this with him..
2007-02-05 22:39:49 · answer #2 · answered by SMILEYGIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was never there to begin with and this is the reason why he is not giving it to you. Sorry to say that, but you just have to forget about the gift. If he has it, then Valentines Day is his chance to give it to you. If it is not there by then, for get about it (the present) and move on.
2007-02-05 22:35:42 · answer #3 · answered by trykindness 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just tell me like it is. I want my gift from you, from Christmas and if you don't give it to me now then it will be one of the reason why we are breaking up. He should get concerned and start asking questions. Your response should always be....I never forget about you. Try this. Good luck!
2007-02-05 22:39:09 · answer #4 · answered by Ms.Midwest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he wants to have sex with you or something. but im not entirely sure.
tell him you're scared of what the present is. if he's mature he'll understand, but from what you're telling me he sounds pretty immature.
i would just forget about it entirely. if you love this boy, you wont care about him not giving you anything. i spent 80 dollars on my girlfriend for christmas, and she didnt get me anything...but its not really that big of a deal, because when i gave her all of the things i got her, she was so happy, and that was more than enough for me.
2007-02-05 22:40:42 · answer #5 · answered by Alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it! It's almost valentines day and he hasn't given you a x-mas gift? No brainer here! He never got you one! and he's just playin' you!
2007-02-05 22:36:33 · answer #6 · answered by Jeff 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋