she says he is just a friend. According to her he has a lot of girl- friends that he is just friends with and hangs out with....u think it could be legitamit or do you think it is some line a guy would use to go out with a beautiful girl that is already dating another guy.... we are dating exclusively fyi?????
2007-02-05 14:27:47 · 22 answers · asked by sexy joker 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust her right now. I have guy friends that I hang out with and I'm engaged to a guy whom I've dated for 5 years... my guy friend even spends the night and stuff, and my fiance trusts me and him b/c there's absolutely nothing between us. I also have a guy friend who I hang out with sometimes, but he's gay so that kind of makes that moot. But just trust her right now, and if you feel like she's being dishonest, then you should bring it up and see what has been going on.
2007-02-05 14:35:45 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are smart. They will know if the guy has alternative motives. But sometimes they'll choose to ignore that suspicion. You need to ask if you are a very jealous person. If you are not and you really feel uncomfortable about your girlfriend going out alone with her coworker, you can request her to invite you along next time they go out. She will be proud of the fact that you're a little bit jealous if she thinks you are a good catch. If she refuses, that may mean that you two have different ideas on how much personal space each person should have in a commitment. That can be a big problem in the long run.
2007-02-05 22:42:09 · answer #2 · answered by tax_question 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why couldn't you go along with her? That makes me a bit suspicious if she didn't ask you to go with her.
Have you met the guy? Do you know him? Does she speak freely about him? Do you know if he's dating anyone? Does your girlfriend go out with other guy friends?
These are the questions you should be asking of yourself and your girlfriend. If she has gone out with guy friends alone, and you have suspected nothing, then perhaps nothing is going on.
But you have to confront her if you know nothing about him or, worse, you do know him and you don't trust him at all. You cannot tell her not to go out, because that brings up the trust issue, but you can ask her to be more open with you about things.
If this becomes a big issue for you, I suggest you talk to her and find out what's going on. If you still don't feel comfortable, I'm afraid there's nothing left for you to do than to leave.
-E
p.s. Hope everything turns out well.
2007-02-05 22:32:48 · answer #3 · answered by ♠Gotham♠ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell her you don't like the situation with her going to a movie with someone else. If you trust her though, it shouldn't be an issue. If he is after her, she will find out and then you will know how exclusive she really is by the way she reacts.
2007-02-05 22:32:35 · answer #4 · answered by Angela F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm seems fishy. I did this when I had a boyfriend but I had already been friends with the guy I think it would be disrespectful if she just met him. Plus we were in a long distance relationship - if he were closer there would be no reason I should go with a random guy instead of my bf.....but who knows, I guess friends can be friends but if you don't know the guy it's hard to trust
2007-02-05 22:31:03 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man I would'nt put up with that **** seriously.
If she loves you man she would'nt put you in that position making you get all paranoid and sh it.
Would you do it to her?
You and I know that loads of guys will try anyhting to steal a girl off another guy. If it were me i'd take his mother or sister to the movies see how he likes that.
Seriously though if it makes you feel uncomfortable tell her if she goes off on one or ignores your feelings well then that says it all really doesn't it.
2007-02-05 22:37:40 · answer #6 · answered by Bohdisatva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I don't think it's appropriate for people in exclusive relationships to go out alone with someone of the opposite sex. That's just asking for trouble
2007-02-05 22:31:50 · answer #7 · answered by melissa 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is likely that they are just friends. If you trust her then it shouldn't be a problem. If she is attractive he probably likes her company even more. That does not necessarily mean he is trying to get involved with her though. Really, the question comes down to your trust for her...
2007-02-05 22:31:37 · answer #8 · answered by luvmykids 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK if you two are going to have a long relationship you have to trust her. Yes it is normal for a girl to have a guy friend, I have many of them. trust her,,,,,and friends do go to movies together. so be happy she cares for you very much. If she says that there friends then you need respect that.
~~~~~~~~~~~~best of luck to the two of you
2007-02-05 22:32:23 · answer #9 · answered by BlueEyedBeauty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hope that since you are with this girl you trust her, and if you trust her... i dont think there is any need to be asking this question.
But if you are in doubt, maybe you should talk to her and let her know that its making you uncomfortable
2007-02-05 22:31:12 · answer #10 · answered by Shy_and_Sexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋