ok, well i am totally shy in school, and i like this guy, but he is so outgoing, and he likes me a little bit, but is a total player, but i dont care,so, outside of school, wen i like know the people, i am crazy fun, but just in school, im so shy, i mean i talk n flirt but im just quieter than i normaly am, but i want to kno how to led him on like the right way, but led him on b4 valentines day, which i can do , i just need advice, on how to act around him, and like what to say and do, and if u say "b urself" well that is myself...haha, like my-school-self, so i just need advice on how to act, and what to say , n how to do those things like the right way, and what would make it easier for me to b outgoing towards him...thanx lotss!!!
2007-02-05 14:20:06 · 8 answers · asked by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him and tell him
2007-02-05 14:23:04 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm an older gentleman in my later 40's, can remember very well my days in school, I was also very shy, but the years go by so fast, and things are forgotten, and you and that guy will remember those good old days when the times slip-away, I say do it while you can, because when you leave school you might never see each other again.
2007-02-05 22:32:40 · answer #2 · answered by fresh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I respect all the recent answers, I loved the answers that praise the fact that you are shy, it's okay, I am like that too, now I am married. so, which means you will be there don't worry, was him or another person.
I hope you the best, take care, there are shy girls in this life.
2007-02-05 22:51:23 · answer #3 · answered by Summer O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok well i have the same problem except he knows that i talk just not to him! lol well first you could start off by flirting and talking to him on myspace if u and he have one or sometype of communication not at school...then like what i did was like accidentally bump into him or try to get him to notice you some way...trust me if he lyks u he will try to make u lyk him! not u trying to make him lyk u! but he notices u he will being to lyk u more!
2007-02-05 22:27:55 · answer #4 · answered by KtotheC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most men don't like a big mouth over bearing womens
sounds like you are doing good as you are "kind of shy"
great!
don't be a total wall flower or a social disaster but it don't sound like you are doing this either..keep cheerful and laugh at his dumb jokes. lol..but most guys are used to talking about themselves and the qualitites you have described sound like the perfect women to me...just don't let him use you as a spare tire.
2007-02-05 22:27:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to be with a player but you dont care if he is. Your gonna get hurt eventually. I hope no one helps you.
2007-02-05 22:23:48 · answer #6 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. being shy is way better than being slutty. always remember that honey
2007-02-05 22:24:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself
be patient
don't obsess
be happy
2007-02-05 22:26:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋