Hi everyone, I got a kinda a "big" problem. My bf tells me his virgin, I know him for a year now. We'd have up and dows like every couple. He said the same to his ex gf about his virginity. BUT hes been acting a lil wierd. Well, the thing is that he made up a "lie" to get me out of his friends from myspace (yeah I know...myspace) cuz he's in the army and because of something that I cant say hes not allow to have a gf. So I said ok and he kept his ex gf and aparently they got back and still with me, at the same time. Well me and the "x" talked and "cleared" everything, every doubt we had. I dont think she was being honest. I wasnt. I think is possible that the army at some point dont let some soldiers have a gf or wife but I think he over used it. So now Im asking my self if he's really a virgin, he said he has never finger a girl, touched their butt or breast. But I saw a comment on his profile from a girl remebering what they did at a hotel in NY and that they made up.
2007-02-05 14:18:46 · 13 answers · asked by Liz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh and something about loosing his memory. Hmmm and I wonder if the tattoo he got is real...it was my initials...lol
2007-02-05 14:19:40 · update #1
Well at this point, I believe him. Innocent until prove wrong. Im going to talk to both of them at the same time and see what they have to say....hopefully theyll say the truth and dont get chicken
2007-02-05 14:22:14 · update #2
I dont care if hes a virgin or not is just that his lying...why?? why he is lying?? if he is.
2007-02-05 14:31:31 · update #3
Virginity only lies in thoughts today. A blind faith to be true to each other is the only real virginity. So please don't go much deeper otherwise you will be hurt.
2007-02-05 14:26:42 · answer #1 · answered by P S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl all the clues point to the fact hes not a virgin. I am a virgin myself and he does not even act close to being a virgin. What the heck is a virgin doing having some girl comment about what he did in a hotel and the fact that hes a military dude tells me even more that he isnt a virgin.
2007-02-06 11:00:59 · answer #2 · answered by virgin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
" I think is possible that the army at some point dont let some soldiers have a gf or wife "
If he told you that, don't believe a single word that comes out of his mouth! The Army does allow for girlfriends and wives... Just not if you're already married!
2007-02-05 14:24:14 · answer #3 · answered by sassiecassie76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not be a virgin afterlife considering the facts u detailed. And oh yeah, there's no physical way to know if a guy is virgin. Normally it can be judged by the way he do it with you for the first time. If he seems experienced, then he is not. If he is kinda nerd and lost, he maybe a virgin. But then he can put up a show. So its upto you to believe him and to get to know him better
2007-02-05 14:24:17 · answer #4 · answered by MasterEled 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I highly doubt he's a virgin. Also I'm pretty sure the army doesn't forbid you from having girlfriends in the states. There's really no way for them to police something like that. You need to wise up.
2007-02-05 14:24:40 · answer #5 · answered by tata10-24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple Liz.
Lay back and spread wide for him.
If he actually knows what to do and does it, he's not.
BUT if he manages to get it in and last only a few seconds or strokes he might very well have been.
BUT then, it's all moot because he isn't any more now is he !
2007-02-05 14:24:16 · answer #6 · answered by Mr 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A) I doubt he is a virgin
B) he's a cheater
C) I doubt that the military has a policy about dating unless it is a homosexual relationship or they may have one about dating if both of you are in the military
2007-02-05 14:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it matter if he is a virgin if he's committed to you now? If you're not sure if he's being honest with you then you have bigger issues than if he's a virgin or not.
2007-02-05 14:26:55 · answer #8 · answered by dave w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run as fast as you can girl and don't look back.Sounds like a playa to me.
2007-02-05 14:22:48 · answer #9 · answered by Angela F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's something you will never know.
He doesn't have any extra skin flap to show as proof
2007-02-05 14:22:24 · answer #10 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋