So I was seeing this guy and at first I wasn't really attracted to him. He's asked me to be his girlfriend three times and I have rejected him because my family didn't approve of our realtionship. But he thinks I said no because I didn't like him and I thought I kinda didn't. Now I am madly in love with him and I don't know what to do because I highly doubt he's still interested in me after all I've put him through. So my question is should I confess my feelings to him or wait it out, because we're actually still pretty good friends?
2007-02-05 14:13:06 · 8 answers · asked by lilly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you want my advise i would talk to him tell him how you fill be honest him and your self if you want to give it a shot then girl go for it family means well but they can also make thangs hard on you it sounds to me that there tring to pick out the guy they want for you and not the guy that you want for yourself mine family did the same to me and i listened to them for awhile but then i made my own mind up and went for it anyway because i listened to my heart so i went for it any way i admit they didnt agree at first they didn't like it at first but they came around now I'm happily married with 3 beautiful babies follow your heart i did good luck girl if you need to talk ill listen visit me at pinksbmbsb@yahoo.com p.s follow your heart it'll lead you the way.
2007-02-05 14:33:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you tell him how you feel. If he likes you enough to ask you out 3 times, then hi clearly likes you. And even if your family doesnt approve, so what? Its not their choice who you date. If you really like this guy then definatly ask him out.
2007-02-05 22:16:54 · answer #2 · answered by unreal_punk_rocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alrit honey! wow! i think u should just tell him about how ur family did n't aproove at first but u still had feelings for him. that's it. trust me if that was true love i had for someone and if thats the explaination they gave me...i would start over again anytime! Good Luck!
2007-02-05 22:17:57 · answer #3 · answered by HAPPY <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth. It's simple, it's hard, but life is hard, so just find the right moment (which is VERY important) and tell him, also say that you're sorry....
2007-02-05 22:16:59 · answer #4 · answered by Crappy Haircut Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start confessin and don't wait till it's too long. You can never find lost opportunities.
2007-02-05 22:19:18 · answer #5 · answered by precious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be honest and up front with him. he's put himself out there for you and now it's your turn.
best of luck!
2007-02-05 22:18:31 · answer #6 · answered by runningballerina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him, talk to him!
2007-02-05 22:16:44 · answer #7 · answered by avechm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him
2007-02-05 22:17:48 · answer #8 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋