What can you do with a guy that likes you but tries to hide it by being mean to you? After he hurts you with words he comes back and tries to comfort you in an explicit way. What can i do with him so that we can start a relationship? What is the the best way to get close to his heart?
2007-02-05 14:00:32 · 14 answers · asked by Teddi G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm ... I am now engaged to a guy that used to be very mean to me when I was a teenager. His issue turned out to be that I was too young then ... but he wanted to keep me interested until I was old enough to date. I would just be forthright with him. Tell him you don't need to be treated like garbage and if he wants to stay in your life then enough with the games!
2007-02-05 14:05:27 · answer #1 · answered by Kristen P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without going into an hour physcology class, lets keep this short. It sounds as if the guy you are trying to take serious, may have his own issues to contend with.
Typically when a person inflicts emotional pain, followed with "explicit comforting", it tells me they may have experienced an "error of past life." Before you try to reach too deep into this guys heart, ask yourself if you are ready for the challenge.
Knock Knock! OK, at least I don't have you dozing off on me! Back to reality... Any person will build a guard against a full open heart, but the question you have is how do you break it? Slowly! Don't rush this guy, he may rebound quicker than you think. Find his complete likes and dislikes, and work as slowly as possible from there. If he likes sports, try doing it with him. Show him you can be the girl he wants, and let the rest fall into hands.
2007-02-05 22:13:43 · answer #2 · answered by zaq23edc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first off i wouldn't start anything if he is mean to you. that's not a good way of showing you like someone, but i would get close to his heart by being a part in his life. call him, IM him, talk to him, and ignore the fact he is mean to you. he might just not really know how to show his feelings, so he reverts back to the first grade way to show his feelings. but that would be what i would do. hope this helps!
2007-02-05 22:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you even think about getting into a relationship with an inmature person like he is in first place ? I mean you can tell he is acting inmature, like a 12 year old kid, even if you go out with him belive me or not it wont work, you are getting closer into a h.e.l.l whole not his heart and you will regreat this in long run
2007-02-05 22:04:59 · answer #4 · answered by Zack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is what really immature guys do i mean like 7-11 so hope this guy is in that age just wait till he grows up a little.
2007-02-05 22:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by Samy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run, do not walk away from this creep! No one should treat any one that way and if this is how he acts now I don't want to think how he will treat any one who is dating this jerk. Please don't let this person hurt you, you deserve so much better.
2007-02-05 22:11:05 · answer #6 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and ask him.If that doesn't work wait for him to move past the 3rd grade
2007-02-05 22:03:38 · answer #7 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need someone like that. Tell him that if he continues hurting you then there will be no chance of anything
2007-02-05 22:03:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohh kay first you nee to tell him to stop doin tht to you bc it really hurts you then when the time is right tell him that you like him (if you do)
2007-02-05 22:04:52 · answer #9 · answered by kaykay<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, thats an interesting question! lol! 20/F wondering the same thing... holla back
2007-02-05 22:04:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋