My boyfriend broke up with me completely out of the blue a little less than a week ago, citing the fact that his future is uncertain and that he doesn't know where he's going and has to follow the four winds, etc. to start his career, and this was not fair to me. He actually cried more than I did over the whole stupid thing. He still acts differently toward me than he does other people, goes to meals with me and my friends (even though I have tried to avoid/ditch him several times), and asked me if we could still hang out and watch the shows we used to watch together. What the heck is going on here? Should I just go with it and hope he falls for me again or tell him to back off? I do love him very much, and I think something else is going on besides the reasons he gave me for the sudden breakup. I just don't want to hurt any more than I already do. We were together just shy of 5 months. His first relationship, but not mine. I'm 19 and he's 23, so answer accordingly, please.
2007-02-05 13:59:45 · 2 answers · asked by Cat Loves Her Sabres 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let it go, at least for a while so you can get yourself together. Time is the ultimate healer, he sounds like he's at a crossroads right now, so he would probably benefit from the complete separation also.
You need a clear head and heart to make a clear decision. Good luck.
2007-02-05 15:34:44 · answer #1 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just wants to be friends with you, or maybe he isn't sure where he is going in life. Just be friends with him. He broke up with you, so when a guy breaks up with you ... your supposed to move on. You don't wait expecting him to ask you back. He choose to break it off, and he obviously just wants to be friends. So start dating again, and just be good friends with him!
2007-02-05 22:04:44 · answer #2 · answered by Alyssa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋