so i have been going out with my boyfriend or over a year now and our sex life is getting a little routine. it is always just the standard positions, him on top then me on top. does anyone have any suggestions to spice it up! also, i never actually orgasm during sex, i know that most women don't but is there anything that i can do to make it happen easier?
2007-02-05 13:54:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just bought some massage oil that warms at your touch. Got it at CVS. My kids were gone and my hubby was watching tv and on the phone. I put the bag with it in there on the counter and he got a really big smile. We had a REALLY good time. It was fun.
Good luck!
About the orgasm during sex...If I get a good orgasm during oral before sex I can always have an orgasm during sex.
2007-02-05 14:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by SheRa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to let go of your inhibitions first. You can try alot of things like masturbation (mutual or him watching), you can try roleplay, there are so many resources that can tell you new positions. You can probably find alot on the internet. I have never had a problem getting a gril of and my technique is clitoral stimulation. I think of it as kind of a clock. Most grils are 1 to 3. Other are 9 to 11. It all depends. But I think you guys should just try to explore new things like maybe more kissing and foreplay. If that doesn't work try methamphetamines.
2007-02-05 14:00:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read off of something that if you stare at a blue surface whiling having sex that it will increase the chances of a orgasm. Also, try roleplay. Watch this funny clip, although I doubt the last one lol
2007-02-05 14:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by Gainy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i don't know how old you are, but when he gets home from whatever he does for a living, pin him to the wall. make him do what you want. chances are he won't mind it. as far as orgasming, find something that makes you really go, whether a certain position or whatever works. maybe its because your getting into a routine that your aren't getting where you want to.
2007-02-05 13:58:52 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ppl might cringe to this i dont care yes its fun and yes women do like it.try anal sex.if u havent came yet hes not doin his job see if hell eat u out and rub softly on the clit it has to be soft firm and fast u know what im trying to say lol.try riding him backwards what u need to do is rent a pono yea there yea go rent a porno and try doin what they do and they do sale condoms for ur man that make him go longer too so u can have a lil more fun till u ***
2007-02-05 14:00:40 · answer #5 · answered by ry h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women don't? only the ones who pretend and don't tell a man what they want. Maybe you should try taking charge a little, talk dirty, tell him what's nice and what's not, If he's worth a damn he'll fix it.
2007-02-05 13:59:50 · answer #6 · answered by yeraluzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the dirt on.
Open up that mind and let it go wild.
You have to have somethings that have been hanging out in the back of your mind. Open up and let them go.
2007-02-05 13:58:32 · answer #7 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you never orgasm?
i cant imagine what that's like. sorry to here though... i know u are frustrated, tell him to help u *** too. tell him to pay attention to your needs.
2007-02-05 13:58:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1)spice up your sex life by banging other guys on the side
2)just masturbate to get an orgasm
2007-02-05 13:58:04 · answer #9 · answered by Poster22 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋
use more foreplay and try a good vibrator.
read THE JOY OF SEX
2007-02-05 13:57:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋