2007-02-05 13:53:12 · 28 answers · asked by spoiledapple123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know someone likes you by your gut. If they are giving off signs then you will see them. You should NEVER EVER call yourself unpopular and ugly! Beuaty is within the eye of the beholder.
I was a model for three years. Very successful. I would cry in the mirror because I thought I was so horrible. I look back now and wish I could go back and enjoy all that time I wasted. If your feeling's about yourself are that low then please do not look to a boy/man to make you feel pretty or better about yourself. talk to a counselor at school, church, even your parents if you have that kind of relationship with them. Be good to you above everyone else!
At the end of the day YOU are the one YOU have to answer to when you look in mirror or lay down to go to sleep!
GL!
'-)
2007-02-05 13:57:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You would not be unpopular and ugly just because you are not a stand-out. You should think positively of yourself and feel better. Regarding the popular guy, I may say that most popular guys do not go for another popular person. Most likely, if he sees you confident in yourself that would be enough cue for him to go for you and focus his attention on you. Just be yourself and should this popular guy lays his eyes on you so there he must have seen you as somebody and not just the "unpopular and ugly" as you perceive yourself. If this popular guy doesnt know you exist then why bother? There might be some other guy not so popular but sees you special and wants to make you a lot happier than the popular guy you might be pining for.
As a final note, just be yourself, befriend everyone, be nice and flash your smile to everyone you feel happy with and who knows what happen, you might not just be getting the popular guy's attention... you might be finding the right guy for you!
Good Luck!!!
2007-02-05 14:17:25 · answer #2 · answered by Julianne Marie L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how "unpopular" you are and how important popularity is in your school. Kids in High School are getting sick and twisted when it comes to tormenting girls. I'd just watch your back to be safe (mentally, emotionally and physically). Plus, if they were really that into you I wouldn't think that one guy would care if the other guy liked you first. ~Note~ that I'm not saying there's anything wrong with you, you're probably rockin'. But High School boys have their heads up their *** most of the time.
2016-03-29 06:57:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to get your self a boost of self esteem girl. You need to look in the mirror every day and tell yourself you are a wonderful person. Everyone in this world is not shallow and not everyone looks at people the same. Someone may think I am pretty and someone else may not think so. Some men like fat chicks like me and some do not. You cannot judge what or whom someonoe will like by what you think their status is. With that being said....You cannot know for sure unless you talk to him, either in person or through a letter. The worst thing he can say is I do not like you.
2007-02-05 13:58:30 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, chin up! You are lovelier than you think you are! Does he pay any attention to you? Stop and say hello? Is he respectful when he talks to you? Does he compliment you about your clothes, your hair your smile? Does he take time out to wave as he passes by or stops a conversation with others to acknowledge you? Does he seem a bit shy around you?
These are all pretty common signs of an attraction.
2007-02-05 13:58:37 · answer #5 · answered by michael g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll never know until you stop calling yourself ugly! And get the nerve to ask him out as a friend for a movie. Just chill with him first....you might not even like him actually!
2007-02-05 13:57:31 · answer #6 · answered by Hot one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask him out when he's alone. And you're only ugly in your own eyes. My ex was the defensive captain of the football team, very popular, and he asked me out after being one of my best friends for a few months. He had showed me pics of his ex's, and I would cry at night, thinking a girl like me never had a chance with a guy who had expectations like I saw. It turns out he thoguht I was beautiful, and beleived he wasn't good enough for me! he was very diferent than he appeared on the outside. Good luck hun!
2007-02-05 13:58:49 · answer #7 · answered by cowgirl91 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, who says your ugly? You shouldnt beat yourself up like that. That will just discourage you even more. If you like this guy, tell him. Or at least become friends with him so he gets to know the real you. Then you can ask him if he likes you. Who knows, maybe he likes you too, but doesnt want to ask.
2007-02-05 13:57:41 · answer #8 · answered by unreal_punk_rocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and everyone has different preferences. Don't judge yourself that way. Never assume that someone regarded as "popular" may not like you. That still remains to be seen..........be brave and have confidence! Go after what you want........life is too short and unpredictable to be wondering "what if's" and "if only"............
2007-02-05 14:00:01 · answer #9 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just in case, be very nice, full of joy, smile, have other interests and focus on the other interests. Guys like a challenge. Don't be waiting around for him. Live your life and let what's supposed to happen, happen.
2007-02-05 13:56:54 · answer #10 · answered by AnswerGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋