please help... should i run??? or should i turn myself in... or should i FORCE my two girlfriends to get an abortion??? please give me some ideas??? my dad wil kill me if he finds out
2007-02-05 13:51:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
NO ABORTION .adoption or keep the baby. NO ABORTION
2007-02-05 13:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by iiTSz ME3 1 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Thirteen...well, never run or that will break their hearts, and no matter what you do you can't FORCE them to have an abortion, I would tell my dad because this is out of your hands and the girls need to be checked out by a pro. I know this idea is probably not what you are looking for, but it would be the wise decision if you think about it.
2007-02-05 14:03:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all u cant force ur girlfriends to do anything, they are underage and im pretty sure need a parent to get an abortion. there is also adoption, which is a good choice. especially at ur age, it'll give u a chance to get urself together and the babies a chance...
Second buy some condoms!!!!
U wanted to act like an adult by having sex, now act like one and fess up to ur parents...u have to face the concequences of ur actions
And now u have to be a daddy, and dont even have an eye lid...lol
2007-02-05 14:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by freemannichole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to face the music...don't run. you will regret it for the rest of your life, forever thinking about the children you father. especially down the road when you ahve more children who you are old enough to care for. no don't force the girls to have abortions, you both may regret it. talk to someone who you trust, the girls can form an adoption plan for the babies if they, too, are not ready to be parents. your father will never know about the adoptions if he does not know the girls. but you are very young and need to go to your local crisis pregnancy center or planned parenthoos center for some private confidential advice. unless you are breaking a law and say it out loud or will hurt yourself or others and say it out loud, what you say will stay between you and the specialist you confide in.
2007-02-05 13:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by jess l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be as much of a man as you can at age thirteen and fess up so those girls, presumably also very young, won't have to raise a child alone. Since you probably can't be of any help, your parents could at least help out since you are half responsible for each kid. Stop sleeping around. Go do something a normal 13 year old should be doing, like playing video games.
2007-02-05 13:56:09 · answer #5 · answered by Amy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First are you sure their yours? You shouldn't force them to get an abortion but you should probably talk it over with them about how it would be better if they got one. If they don't get an abortion then you could always put it up for adoption or find a family that can't conceive a child. Maybe you should run to a doctor's office or speak to your guidance counsilor.
2007-02-05 13:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by icecreamboy121 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMFG! don't run! turn urself in! that's sooooo wrong! ur 13?! u need to tell ur parents. how do they NOT kno about this? u should NEVER force someone to get an abortion! they should make their own choices, after all, it's their body. and why do u have 2 girlfriends?!
2007-02-05 14:00:12 · answer #7 · answered by shopoholic4906 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!! Surely you jest! If you are not kidding, you need to start talking to your parents now, because this will come out. You cannot "force" anyone to have an abortion. You need to face up to what you did and then abstain from sex again until you are 21.
2007-02-05 13:57:25 · answer #8 · answered by Yahoogirl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A dad at thirteen???? . . . and two children to boot? Welcome to the real world, tdwire. You'll have to stay and face the music. In real life if you play, you pay. Sorry. Best to tell your parents right now. They'll be able to help you.
2007-02-05 13:56:40 · answer #9 · answered by JADE 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dude, don't run, and you can't force the girls to get an abortion...you are going to have to step up and face the consequences of your actions...
2007-02-05 13:58:16 · answer #10 · answered by Kev 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Next time keep it in your pants. You are thirteen, your not going to jail. I hope your not serious. They will find out. You are screwed. Take responsibility for your actions. Its what parents do.
2007-02-05 13:55:57 · answer #11 · answered by Donovan G 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋