2007-02-05 13:51:41 · 10 answers · asked by Madden 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to her and ask her
2007-02-05 13:54:36 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you like to get to know her better? Then what would you want to know about her? It might be nice to introduce yourself, and try to find some common ground that can help break the ice...what do the two of you have in common? Do you take a class with her? Go to the same social function?
Don't be a mind reader! And don't assume her every move. Just be friendly - like you would with anyone new you might meet. I KNOW, it's easier said than done. When I wanted to desperately meet someone, it came across as desperate. The balance was off. And then there were some people where the introduction was comfortable and relaxed - Well, get the picture?
Most people are just as shy as you are....So, it helps if you don't put anyone on the spot. Just show consideration as you would like to be treated - like a human being.
By the way, why do you like this girl? There must be some reason that made you like her - so it sounds like you might have talked to her already? Or is it just her looks?
Whatever your motive is - don't worry about whether she likes you - Just try to be a likeable person in return. And let things take their course.
Juliana
2007-02-05 22:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by cleo_associates 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say something random to her, anything at all. Just look her way and blurt it at her and keep doing so until she notices. Chances are, if she has even a trace amount of feelings for you, she'll smile and try to stretch the conversation. If she just gives you a dirty look and turns away, it's ok, just go to the next step.
Hang around her. Pass by her and give her a few second-glances. If each time you look back, she looks at you or in your direction, she probably has a crush on you. Why else would she choose you out of the crowd? Also, in the classroom, make yourself known. Go up to the front of the class to throw something away or blow your nose (but not disgustingly). Look cool and calm while doing it. Look a couple times to see if she's checking you out. If she does and looks away really fast, it's a done deal. Just move on to the next step (even if she doesn't look at you at exactly the moment you look at her, don't be worried, she's probably trying to hide her feelings!).
Hold the door open for her. If she looks at you when she says thank you, she's trying to make you notice her gratitude. Smile and say you're welcome-do not grunt or nod.
Ask her for help during class (this especially comes in handy in science classes because of the lab work). Don't act like she's just a homework buddy, though, just some quick check questions to get used to talking to her. If she feels like you're using her, it's not good; so lay it on thinly and don't overdo it. Come prepared with an answer to your question and just say "oh that's what I got, too. hehe. Thanks" (and smile).
If your crush is always turned in your direction and making noise or odd, sudden movements, it's a good sign. Watch for her sitting up really straight or really slouched (depending on what she thinks you like) and playing with her hair, or if she's always laughing. It might be that she likes to giggle a lot but often times she's smiling nonstop in the hopes that you'll see her doing it.
Look to see if she's suddenly started sitting or standing near you but not exactly next to you.
Keep smiling! It's your very best feature.
If you're sitting alone and she's next to you, don't look preoccupied or tired and depressed. Either will discourage her to come up and talk to you.
No matter what you hear, flirting with other girls in front of her doesn't work. It gets her jealous but probably won't motivate her to compete. And after a week or two, if you haven't made the move yet and you're still flirting with another girl, she'll give up. Just stick with that one girl.
Make her feel noticed! Chances are if she notices you, she wants you to notice her!
2007-02-05 22:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by nk_20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls are very moody and indecisive, and some are very forward and focused on their feelings. Decide what kind of girl you think she is by observing her, and see how she treats you, compared to how she treats other guys. There should be a contrast that you will notice, if you pay close enough attention.
2007-02-05 21:56:36 · answer #4 · answered by Charlie H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, i'd ask her straight out, but if you don't want to do that, then pay attention to the way she acts around you. Of course you could always just ask one of her friends
2007-02-05 21:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by Kalphbeir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could come out and ask her. whether it be in person, or you could write her a note. If you are too shy for that, ask a friend to ask her for you. There are plenty of ways.
2007-02-05 21:54:42 · answer #6 · answered by unreal_punk_rocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, we're kind of obvious. we look at you alot. and smile. our face might go red. or, some of us are really stupid and "accidentally" bump into you. if you've caught this girl staring at you more than ten times, she probably likes you.
2007-02-05 21:56:31 · answer #7 · answered by Bekisephasorus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does she laugh at ur jokes? does she smile when she talke 2 you? do you hear her friends talk about you or give you a nickname? _or just ask her!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-05 21:56:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she looks at you and smiles, and u should so ask her out if shes not a prep
2007-02-05 21:56:05 · answer #9 · answered by I Love Ryan .S. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her if she gives you conversation with a smile then you got her
2007-02-05 21:57:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋