i was with him for 3years and never cheated on him but i recently found out that he has been kissing and touching(if u know wat i mean) other girls, he says that they didn't mean a thing, and that he was drunk, i broke up with him anyways because he did wat he did, it has been a month and he's still tryin to get me back, he even came to me and played me a song that said he missed me, he told me he wanted to marry me, but he really hurt me, i keep tellin myself he's not worth the heartache and that i'm too young for this stress, i'm 22 by the way, but i'm starting to miss him and i jus don't know wat to do anymore
2007-02-05 13:43:09 · 9 answers · asked by kay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO NO NO, he'll keep doing what hes doing hun!! Leave him! Your too good for him, once a cheater always a cheater, once a liar, always a liar. He is a discrase! You may miss him but do you SERIOUSLY want other chicks rubbing against you from his body? Uggh, seriously, he might smarten up and come back, but when he is full hearted again, he'll go off cheating again. COME ON GIRL! YOU CAN GET BETTER!
2007-02-05 13:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing in the beginning, when you left him in the first place. Don't go back to him, and you know he flirts around with other girls. You are worth so much more, and young women shouldn't have to settle for less. The only reason hes coming around being nice, and saying everything he knows you wanna hear... is because he knows he did wrong. So he has to beg you, so he can come back in your life, and play games. DON'T FALL FOR IT GIRL! You have to stand up and be strong. If he really cared about you... he wouldn't have did the things he did. Go out and find you a good man... whose gonna Love YOU! I hope this advice helped you! Stay strong!
Good Luck
2007-02-05 21:51:30 · answer #2 · answered by CUTIE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not get back with him. Absolutely not. He has shown you that he cannot be trusted, and for that you should be grateful. If you end up getting back together, he WILL do it again, because he knows he can. You would have taken him back once, after all. Don't reward his atrocious behavior. And absolutely DO NOT marry him! He has already been unfaithful to you! You ARE too young for the nonsense and stress! Go out and enjoy your girlfriends or get to know yourself. Find a hobby that you enjoy. And meet other guys...nice guys who don't get drunk. Best wishes!
2007-02-05 21:56:56 · answer #3 · answered by fair blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say give him a last chance and try to see how he behaves ...3 years in a relationship isn't anything ....!! if he's been kissing others girls and touching them for a while ..he might be in a moment where he was drunk ...!! did he sleep with them that's another story ....!!! u were right to break up to show to him that you are angry ...!! but, if he comes back to you , it means that he feels sorry for what he has done, and probably, if he respects you , he won't do that again so earlier ....but, well, people makes mistakes ..if you shoud give a last chance , I would say ...!!
Good Luck !!
2007-02-05 21:53:29 · answer #4 · answered by bobby s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel so sorry for you...
If he cheated even once he'll do it again so if you plan on forgiving him, plan to do a lot of forgiving in the future as well!
I'd suggest moving on. It'll be hard 'cause you've been with him for soooo long. Plus I don't doubt that he really cares for you and he probably does want to marry you but that's probably 'cause you never cheated and he knows he can trust you.
Get back with him if you want 'cause in the end it's all about what you want with your life, we're just expressing our opinions while you're living it. Just understand clearly all the facts of what you're getting into.
Good luck!
2007-02-05 21:49:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anesia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop moping around over him and get out there and date other guys and just have some fun. You have lots of time. Do you really want a guy that gets drunk and goes after other girls? See what else is out there
2007-02-05 21:48:55 · answer #6 · answered by penny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"You'll never be treated better than you are now. What you see is what you get. Pack up and leave and don't believe the promises when he tries to get you back"
someone said that to me when I was in a messy situation, interpret it how you like but the message is there.
2007-02-05 21:47:55 · answer #7 · answered by Shy_and_Sexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you admit you even miss him too. 3 years is a darn long time. just give him one more chance. hes jsut a guy. hell realize howw hurt you were and never do it again. open your heart,. If you dont love him enough, then just leave him. He meant alot to you and he made a mistake, can you forgive him to make yourself happy?
2007-02-05 21:48:12 · answer #8 · answered by open_minded_grl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, this is the one and only thing you should do:you should follow your heart
2007-02-05 21:47:33 · answer #9 · answered by Tiffany D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋