help! i need to get over him!?

Question

How do u get over a 3yr relationship? 3yrs is along time!!!!! i can't stop thinking about him. help plzzz thanks for the advice

Answer 1

3 years may seem like a long time... but it ended for a reason. You could be with someone for 3 years... and it could be the happiest time of your life or it can be the worse. Its not as much of the time, but how you feel. You have to follow your heart, and make the decision based on what you know! But don't waste another 3 years getting hurt!
Good Luck

Answer 2

It's tough, but you need to keep at it. Remind yourself of his shortcomings. This will help you realize how you deserve so much better than him. If there's a song that always reminds you of him, create new memories with the song so that the emotional ties fade away. If for any reason you want to call him or text him, call or text your friends instead. Break ups are terrible. But you can get past it. I usually wallow the first couple of weeks, listen to our song over and over again until I'm blue in the face. Cry your heart out. Write about it like crazy. Once you let yourself wallow in it, you should be able to move on with your life, little by little. I hope this helps. Get support from your friends! They will be the ones to help you through this. Good luck!

Answer 3

Just try to distract yourself with something every time you think of him. Do something to completely take your mind off him. Watch tv, listen to music, or get your room cleaned out or some other productive activity like maybe playing badminton. That'll help you release some energy and you'll feel better and it might also clear your head. I know it sounds like weird advice but trust me. It helped me! Good luck!

Answer 4

nothing helps you get over the last one like the next one!!...... go on a date, it will help you get your mind off of him and help remind you of your good qualities