I met a guy at a lounge and he asked me for my number. We ended up going on a first date and having a blast! We talked for a two week time span and hung out a total of five times.....and now he hasn't called and its been a little over a week. He had left it as he would call me. What should I do...leave it alone or call to see whats up?
2007-02-05 13:25:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No we didn't sleep together....
2007-02-05 13:41:20 · update #1
Give him a call and tell him you just heard the funniest thing and wanted to share it. Let him know you had a good time when you were together and would like to get together again. Don't sound accusatory or say "you said you would call..." Just act natural and friendly.
If it's meant to be, it will be. But that doesn't mean you have to be utterly passive about the whole deal. :)
2007-02-05 13:31:30 · answer #1 · answered by World Traveler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flow on and initiate focusing on you. this could do a pair of issues: a million) help you initiate feeling extra sensible approximately your self and comprehend you do not might desire to have him around. 2) provide him the gap he ought to be sure what that's he's puzzled approximately. 3) in case you initiate seeing different individuals, your ex might desire to be sure what he needs lots swifter and not choose you to flee 4) by you seeing what else is obtainable, you will possibly desire to comprehend that this ruin-up grew to become into the final element that ever take place to you. I definitely have a feeling that there is not any way he is going to alter his techniques. The "if i alter my techniques" or "you in no way be attentive to what is going to take place interior the destiny, we could get lower back jointly" B-S lines are only that, B-S!! he's only protecting his ideas open and needs you to take a seat around for him. consistent with probability provide him one extra probability, yet be sure you tell him, it is the two a sure or a no. If he remains attempting to determine it out after 4+ years, then that on my own is a No. i've got been dumped by long term GF before and the final advice i aspects is which you will possibly desire to go on. in case you do not, it only drags that soreness of the breakup even longer. it is going to take a while, even some months, yet you will discover yet another guy and be even happier then you think of you ever will lower back. One final theory - and this might harm to pay attention...yet, it would desire to not be that he does not opt to be in a courting, yet that he already chanced on somebody else and he does not opt to be in a courting with you.
2016-09-28 11:42:01 · answer #2 · answered by vyky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This story is sooo close to home...
My tip: Don't call him!! he'll start believing he's got you feeding off the palm of his hand, all men do. If he really does like you, he'll call you back when he sees he's not so sought after...
Trust me, you don't want to fall into the hole of "I'll call him... maybe he got hit by a car!!". He's ok. Believe me....
I'm still waiting for MY attaché to call!! And it's been a week... you know what he says when he sees me?? "I know that all I have to do is smile at you and you'll forget you're mad at me..."
Seriously, you don't want to end up with him believing that... they all do. Remain firm... DON'T CALL!!!
2007-02-05 13:34:32 · answer #3 · answered by veevintage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to admit you're interested in the relationship continuing? If so, then call. If you'd rather be left wondering why he didn't call (the fantasy that he was abducted by pirates and forced to sail away from you may be attractive), don't call him.
2007-02-05 13:30:53 · answer #4 · answered by John D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and see what's up. He might be in the hospital, and you may not have found out about it. If you and him are close, if he is home and well, you can explain that you were worried that he may have been in the hospital and you may not have been notified or something......
2007-02-05 13:29:04 · answer #5 · answered by Crappy Haircut Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call once. if he doesn't respond or call you back, then i'd forget him. i hate to ask but, did you sleep with him? if you did and now he's blowing you off, he's doing the sleazy 'guy' thing and was only after 'one thing', as they say. sorry, i hope that's not the case. but call him once - if nothing happens, then write him off as a total jerk.
2007-02-05 13:30:12 · answer #6 · answered by Lori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call to see whats up
2007-02-05 13:30:24 · answer #7 · answered by kauaichic420 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone. Don't waste your time chasing someone that won't chase back. If you do it now, you will be doing it through the whole relationship. Find someone who will chase you back.....
2007-02-05 13:30:05 · answer #8 · answered by cali 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave It Alone He's a Jerk
2007-02-05 13:32:58 · answer #9 · answered by lisa a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call-- you'll know by the way he's acting if he's into it or not.
2007-02-05 13:29:46 · answer #10 · answered by wishfulthinking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋