Recently, I just asked this one girl from my school. She rejected me, but now I think I have overcome that initial shyness barrier. So now, I like this one girl in my biology class and I want to ask her out. If I just went up and talked to her, then It would be pretty un-casual because we sit in opposite sides of the room, and I don't want to hint that I like her without me being sure she likes me.
The thing is, we don't talk to each other. We know who each other is, but we just don't talk. My question is, How can I build up my relationship with her so I can ask her out eventually?
And please dont say, "talk about sports, weather....." because that doesnt work for me :(
Thanks for all your answers in advance!!
2007-02-05
13:10:20
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ok, there is no real one way to talk to a girl. pick up lines do not work any1 who thinks so is RETARTED. they are cheesy, and especially wont work in a class room. Go over and talk to your friend or something. (who sits close to this girl)...then quickly make eye contact and say "hey" then maybe "how'd u do on the test" or something. Girls will never ask a guy out. But if she finds u attractive or/and is interested she will show interest back. And things will keep on rolling after that. DO NOT quit after the first convo. try a few times. just say whats up, or whatever i said before. BE CONFIDENT. this is the BEST advice, and answer period i know this ****. what works and what dousnt. good luck.
2007-02-05 13:17:55
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answered by Justin K 1
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Just try and get to know her, say hello everyonce in a while. Yeah, that sounds really stupid, my answer failed, didn't it.... *sigh*
Um, you're in a tough spot, if you get a chance to work as science partners for an expirement (like a lab, if you do those....) then talk, not like weather or sports, but I don't know, about the experiment (I don't know how to spell........) would be a good idea, if you have any chance, talk about school, ask her what assignment you have, but don't sound stupid, say like "I wrote the math assignment down, but I don't know where I put it, do you know what it is?" or something like that.
Yeah, this may be the best answer, or the stupidest answer you get, I don't know, hope it helps though!
(PS: do not use the first example directly..... in a different way, if you can think of any maybe......)
2007-02-05 21:17:15
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answered by Crappy Haircut Girl 6
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if i were u, i would write her a letter about how i feel for her n that if she would like 2 go out on a date with me n 2 write back a note saying yes or no n why. but write the note the night b4 n since u know where she sits, put it on her desk once u enter the classroom n when she comes in, she'll read it n just hope she'll answer u back. but think VERY CAREFULLY of wat ur going 2 say on this letter. think it through. just tell her that u want 2 get 2 know her n that u want 2 b her friend n hopefully later on, a little more than friends if she ends up having a crush on u. i hope this helps. good luck!
2007-02-05 21:21:58
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answered by emilytobey@sbcglobal.net 3
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If you get there early and she is there say something funny. Then start talking to her more and more. Don't be stalker like. Just be sweet and funny. After a while when you think she feels the same, ask her out! PS: I think its sweet that you are nervous around her! It's cute to see guys tongue tied!
2007-02-05 21:24:02
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answered by Yay me!!!! 4
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have a party, invite her friend, then tell her friend to invite her. make it good so lots of ppl will be there.
then go and talk to her, start causaly about anything, stay around her see if she confortable with you around, if she looks ok, ask for her number and tell her you want to study with her in biology.
then invite her out for a study thing, buy her lunch, drink whatever , make some jokes, if she likes you, ask her out for a movie..... date....
2007-02-05 21:16:29
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answered by Curious G 2
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Sounds like me except I'm in Middle school, & I don't have a crush on her. talk to her after class if you can.
2007-02-05 21:15:01
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answered by Daniel 2
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Acually, talk to her frist other wise it'll seem werid to her. But if you really don't have anything to talk with her about, then wait for somone else.
2007-02-05 21:14:43
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answered by keithr2003 3
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