Last night at a super bowl party my co-workers threw, I had a situtaion that really upset me. My boyfriend was also there and he invited a lot of his friends including women friends. one woman did a few things that was a little flirtatous towards my man and the conversations between me and her was a little competitive and it seem to that she was intentionally trying to aggravate me. I expressed my feelings to my man and he acknowledged that she was out of line on some things. He apologized and told me that would not happen again. He also brought it to her attention and claims she was sorry that she was just intoxicated. I know the tramp did it on purpose and for some reason I am still bothered by it. it's been bothering me all day because I'm afraid that she and my man might have been involved with each other or are messing around now. I'm just bothered by it. What should I do???
2007-02-05 13:03:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it is bothering you too bad, you have to let him go. It seems that he is not going to be able to reassure you otherwise. I can not think of anything else he can do and no one wants to jump through hoops for the rest of a relationship.
Learn this today -that no matter how much a man and woman love each other, they can not stop some other person from trying to come after one of them. Did you hear me? I said they can not stop the person from trying. They have to do their part and not bite.
Perhaps he can do one more thing: that is stop dealing with her at all, but then you will have to deal with your insecurity because I know you do not want him to feel pressured like you are always going to complain about something he may not have control over. Catch my drift?
You know girls can be messy- so let that tramp know that her trampiness does not bother you. Girl, when you got the trophy-you got the trophy. Let that tramp complain and wine and woo over it. Each time she said something to aggravate you, you should have given him a big juicy kiss and said I love you baby!
Now that is what you and your man can work out to do when you know that that is the situation. Get real baby- talky and lovey- dovey to each other.
I hope this helps you- you diva. If you did not have it going on, the tramp would not be bothered to try and mess in your world. So step up the diva a notch on the tramp o.k!
2007-02-05 13:24:16 · answer #1 · answered by Arene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooooh, I know you are mad. I don't know if your man is cheating on you or if he's just being the typical dumb male jerk. I say create a situation that will allow you to find out. Well, don't create a situation where he and the girl are together, but make up something as an excuse for you to be out of town. Then you and your best friend needs to check out his actions. I know this is a bit of a covert act. I guess the other thing you can do is just ask, but you know the riddle:
Riddle: How can you tell when a man is lying?
Answer: If his lips are moving.
Good luck. I hope it works out and he was just being a little dumb.
2007-02-05 21:11:52 · answer #2 · answered by Christy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋