when girl you want loves you and you are not sure what to do and it's been a year since you have seen her. you will be spending 5 days alone with her and she tells you she wants you to take her "v" away what would you do?
2007-02-05 12:58:59 · 16 answers · asked by Metalup87 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok... i know most of the guys (and some of the girls) on here are hoing to tell you to do it but you sound like a good guy who really cares for her. it sounds a little crazy to do that when you havent even seen her for a year... plus if i was her, i know there's a good chance i would regret that later.... if i was you i would want to spend some time with her first. you dont want to be just the crazy thing she did once, do you? if you want to be more than that you need to tell her to wait.
best of luck to you.
2007-02-05 13:10:08 · answer #1 · answered by runningballerina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....you can have sex with anyone and it not mean a thing and end up realy hurting someone...especially when it comes to The V card. You jus need to ask yourself a few questions...1: Do you care about this girl 2:Do you care enough to wait and build something first.Dont get me wrong..sex is fun but its a big step. Im 17 turning 18 in April and Im 7weeks pregnant because I hooked up with an ex at a party thinking he felt the same way I did.(He doesnt and I know that NOW..) So think about it. Are you ready?
2007-02-05 21:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by lyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends do you really like her a lot then you should but it might be that she's just doing it so you'll like her more and she may not be really ready. Its really up to you if you don't really think you'll be together or you don't really like her then you should tell her that and tell her she should wait for someone special I"m not sure other than that hope that helps ^__^
2007-02-05 21:03:48 · answer #3 · answered by Jess_Eka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you
dont do it right away spend 2 or 3 days getting reaqquainted. make sure your ready so you wont regret it but if you do do it umm make sure to keep in touch.
2007-02-05 21:03:32 · answer #4 · answered by alexa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"V" is serious.
Are you ready for such a responsibility.
Even you haven't seen each other in a year, why not play catch up,
first, and see if you two can be FRIENDS first, before you become lovers.
Take your time.
Your more special to a girl when you honest her with your heart, and not your penis.
Think first.
2007-02-05 21:02:11 · answer #5 · answered by * Deep Thought * 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure any guy would tell you to do it. But I say don't unless you love her back. You don't want to leave her with a traumatic "first time" memory, do you?
2007-02-05 21:01:31 · answer #6 · answered by princess_naya_elphaba 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds suspisous to me. Like a trap. If you in ANY WAY feel "funny" about it, I would turn down her invitation.
2007-02-05 21:02:28 · answer #7 · answered by Debi in LA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally believe sex is a privilege of marriage.
2007-02-05 21:01:32 · answer #8 · answered by odandme 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
... tough, i mean you have to think about the whole situation and what is the right thing to do.
2007-02-05 21:03:09 · answer #9 · answered by fake a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she using you? if you think that is the case, then your answer should be no -- never good to let anybody use you.
2007-02-05 21:03:47 · answer #10 · answered by snickersmommie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋