go for the Good looking but Jackass guys instead of the Normal looking but vary sweet guys.
2007-02-05 12:56:42 · 12 answers · asked by Dont get Infected 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
acctually angus im not ugly you sh*t faced f*cker
2007-02-05 13:02:40 · update #1
Sorry about the language its a bad habbit im trying to shake off
2007-02-05 13:03:47 · update #2
I have seen this, and I know mate.... but whenever a girl asks, why are men jerks, I allways refer them to this...... its so very true..... sad aint it?
A wise man once told me, "As a man, you have to die once in order to live." I never fully appreciated his advice, nor did I understand it until I experienced it firsthand. From that time on, I understood the origins of the Jerk vs. Nice Guy battle.
Readers may be asking themselves, "What in the world is this guy talking about?" Well, I'm referring to the widely known fact that women habitually date men that are jerks while the "nice" guys are often left twiddling their thumbs in solitaire. Does this sound familiar to anyone?
Figuratively speaking, in order for a man to enjoy the company of women and be able to seduce them, his inner nice guy must first die through heartache. It is at this point that his inner bad boy surfaces and goes on the prowl.
Any man that has experienced true love, only to have his heart crushed by the woman that he thought he would spend his life with, will understand what I am talking about. A man that has never experienced the heartache of being burned by the one person he really trusted probably won't understand my commentary. In any case, it is important to understand why nice guys finish last and why they probably always will.
to die
Contrary to what most women think, men are interested in successful relationships. Most men will never pass up the chance to date the woman of their dreams. In fact, when a man does encounter this rarity of a woman, his passion gets the better of him. The thoughts that race through his mind are something along the lines of, "This woman is a keeper. I'm going to treat her right and do all I can to make her happy."
The only problem with being the nice guy is that you also become the boring, predictable guy. The excitement of the seduction process begins to fade for the woman because she has what she wants and doesn't have to do any chasing. Eventually the woman starts losing interest and before you know it, her eyes start to wander.
In the end, she'll look for a new man who will bring excitement back into her life by being the "new and improved" challenge. Pursuit and excitement usually stem from selfish attitudes, much like the bad boy who doesn't care about anyone but himself. The nice guy will be left heartbroken and will start wondering what in the world he did wrong.
It's at this point that men begin to realize that most women generally don't know what they want from us. Evidently, being the nice guy certainly doesn't help. The conclusion of the aforementioned scenario? The death of the nice guy persona. So that's the life and death of the nice guy and, as a result, "Mr. Nice" is resurrected into "Mr. Jerk"
2007-02-05 13:00:13 · answer #1 · answered by Sean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a good question. I tend to lean towards the sweeter guys. I hate the guys who are so full of themselves that they think they can get anyone. Don't worry if your putting yourself in the second category, your time will come. No one can stand a guy like that. And I think that you are probably underestimating yourself! Don't think that you aren't just as good looking as the other guys!
2007-02-05 21:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by Yay me!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's only true for the girls with low self-esteem. Most girls would go for the average looking, sweet guys (or atleast the girls I know).
2007-02-05 21:01:36 · answer #3 · answered by HeadOverHeels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same reason guys go for skanky looking women with low intelligence instead of the normal looking but smart women.
Its all about sex.
2007-02-05 21:00:04 · answer #4 · answered by polk2525 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they haven't figured out that the normal guys are what they are really looking to settle down with yet.
2007-02-05 20:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by Ryne R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not true its just some girls that think they are the greatest want to to go with someone who has the image of being 'the greatest' girls liek that are not worth it.
2007-02-05 20:59:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they tend to but not always. sometimes they go for nice guys
guys seem more into looks than girls tho
2007-02-05 20:59:08 · answer #7 · answered by Mike H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because that is the very first thing that they and think that is the best that they can find.
2007-02-05 20:59:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must be ugly, good looking ppl date good looking ppl , ugly ppl date ugly ppl, its a fact of nature, the best go with the best, live with it
2007-02-05 20:59:52 · answer #9 · answered by Angus J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well sir if you answer this question correctly you deserve to be put down in history...
2007-02-05 21:00:51 · answer #10 · answered by xxx P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋