i was at the mall yesterday with my girlfriend suddenly there was this other couple who were laughing at us and when i look at them they called me "gay!". i just ignored them. i'm secure with myself that i'm straight. i wanted to confront the guy and beat the hell out of him but my girl said to just ignore them so i did. did i do the right thing ignoring them?
2007-02-05 12:54:48 · 10 answers · asked by mike d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you did the right thing. You said you're secure with yourself, so who cares what he or anyone else thinks. people are always going to be making fun or laughing at other people, it's a part of life. Being able to hear what they said and being able to walk away from it shows you're more of a "man" than others.
2007-02-05 13:00:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure, you were up to a fight?
If you were, was it for protecting your pride or trying to look tough infront of your girl?
Did you have a back-up or a back-up plan just in case you started the fight but can't get the job done and instead of getting a good beating by them?
What if they had guns and pointed at you, would you ask them for mercy?
What if they violated your girl infront of you & made you watch from the beginning to the end (This is a man's worst nightmare)?
If you can answer all of my questions and still be able to take them on, then you're READY FOR A STREET FIGHT.
As for your conduct on that day, I have to give you a credit....YOU DID THE RIGHT THING BY BACKING DOWN FROM A FIGHT BECAUSE YOU DIDN'T QUITE KNOW YOUR ENEMIES YET.
Good luck!
2007-02-05 21:08:22 · answer #2 · answered by Infinite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ABSOLUTELY did the right thing. Your girlfriend wanted to protect you even if you could of beat the crap out of the other guy. And you listened to her. Now if anyone ever says anything to her...its your turn to do the protecting. Thats when you unleash your wrath and show your girlfriend that NOBODY talks to her that way. You did good!
2007-02-05 21:00:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.. what good would it have done to confront them? Actually they probably would have laughed at you for acting so defensive. Good job: you should always be the bigger person.
2007-02-05 21:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by Eve 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, truly.
Dudes like that, try to hide they insecurities, when their "single"
and see another dude with his lady.
So they try to make a guy feel small.
They were hatin' on you.
(jealous)
As you left and continued to shop with "your lady."
You made their single butts feel even smaller.
Good job!
2007-02-05 20:59:59 · answer #5 · answered by * Deep Thought * 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there could have been a lot of trouble that you didn't want.
2007-02-05 20:59:50 · answer #6 · answered by HeadOverHeels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes beacause if you say that you are not gay than that is what counts not what others tell you have confidence in you
2007-02-05 20:58:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep, what do you care what he thinks about you. he's probably just jealous...plus you listened to your girl, which is what you should ALWAYS do!!!
2007-02-05 21:12:24 · answer #8 · answered by sunshine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES
2007-02-05 20:58:49 · answer #9 · answered by brebitz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u did the right thing by ignoring them. if u r secure with yourself wut does it matter wut other ppl think
2007-02-05 21:00:43 · answer #10 · answered by blackraven254 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋