I want a boyfriend how do I get one?

Question

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Answer 1

You stop wanting one.

Seriously--once you stop craving a boyfriend and just enjoy life, the more attractive you're going to be.

Take it from someone who didn't date until age 17, didn't kiss until age 19...you're going to be fine if you don't date. Dating is fun and all, but when you're still in HS you're still too involved in school to really experience a relationship.

Answer 2

First impression is most important for the other boys, but it's not important to you. This may sound confusing, but think about it this way. Consider these 2 scenarios.
1) There's a boy... You had a great first impression... He may come, or you can go to him.
2) There's another boy... You had a bad first impression... He will not come unless if you give him SEVERAL good impressions, which is more difficult... Oh well, you will find another guy.
If you can have both first impression and lasting appeal, then you just made yourself a super dominant lover girl.
- First impression is all about looking good, sitting up straight, being respectful, and getting in tune with what's culturally liked about women in the U.S. So you may have to change yourself a bit for this one if you want to attract many. But I know, you are saying that you don't care about being so perfect or attracting many. Just one is enough. That's where lasting appeal comes in.
- Lasting appeal is all about moving slowly and taking everything one day at a time. How much affection, and attention you can give to him on a daily basis without overexausting yourself or putting yourself against your own will? Lasting appeal is alot harder, but I think it's best for you to experiment with this, and find your own comfort. Because without adjusting to your own nature, you will never want to get married.

Answer 3

You are entering this in an unhealthy way. You must overcome the peer pressure of getting a boyfriend.

The way you should approach this is:
1) Find a boy you like.
2) Get to know him well. You may start online, but if you wish to
get any further, you must meet him in real life.
3) Ask him to go out with you once you are confident that he at least has feelings of "somewhat" of a friend or at least "not a loser."

Answer 4

well.....just because you want one doesn't mean you get one. In general I would just want to tell you that for something meaningful for you it will happen without you even trying. Just be open to the guys. Experiment with your hair, make up, clothes and styles. Find hobbies or clubs to join where you might meet more possibilities. The more you meet the better your odds are bound to be. Good luck! By all means when you do start seeing someone please command respect for yourself. Don't do anything you would feel ashamed of later.

Answer 5

well first off dont go seek for a man wait for the one to come to you 9 out 10 when you try to search for one you might not want what you get !!!!!! so just chill work on you go travel your young there no need to put labels or so on, on others. and another thing i have 7 brothers and im the only girl and the oldest is 33 and im 21 and i let you know right now guys from 16 to 35 don't take things to seriously so just work on yourself.....!!!!!!! oohhhh

Answer 6

Don't push it....if guys see that you are despirate they tend to put on a front and then turn out to be someone totally different in the end. Let the right person come to you....especially if you are trying to find that "someone" special that you want to spend most of your time with. Don't try so hard. If they see you aren't being real with them, more than likely they will just be turned off by it.

Answer 7

Be friendly, approachable and be yourself. Put a little extra care into your appearance. Go out and mingle, start up a conversation with an interesting guy (don't throw yourself at him, though) Be patient and you will get a boyfriend. They often come when you aren't expecting them!

Answer 8

wow, chill babes! you want one but probably your prince charmin has not reached your doorstep yet so don't rush okey. take it slow but of coures give it a push on some one u like. probably they think u don't want anyone at the moment so its about time you star givin dem some signs. a little make over would do and of course look out! he might be just a few blocks away!! good luck

Answer 9

Wait for the right guy to come along!

Make yourself available. Be friendly and happy. Dont lower your standards. Take pride in yourself, a boy will like you for you, not an imitation! Patience coming on to strong to most guys will normally chase them away!

Answer 10

All you have to do is relax. If you find a guy you like just take it easy and talk to him. See what he likes. Hey you might have the same things common. That's how relationships start.