Will she call?

Question

my girlfriend broke up with me after 8 years together. I know she still loves me but just wants to have time alone to do things before settling down. We have made no future plans to get back together and because i was so hurt i even said not to call me, write me, contact me or anything and she agreed. Do you think that she will listen to that or understand i only said it given the situation and my hurt? Should i tell her i didnt mean what i said? Will she call?

Answer 1

well let me ask you this, do you rather keep it in you for the rest of your life, or you rather say it and be disappointed?

To wonder for the rest of your life... I'm not sure about you, but that will kill me, I'd rather get things off my chest and if it was to move on, then so be it, at least I asked and said the things I needed to say... sometimes the greatest or the hardest obstacle in life is to accept... I think you had just met this obstacle.

Stay strong and good luck.

Answer 2

Sure, she will call. Then, depending on your actions, you two will either become friends, or get back together again (if you apologize correctly). But... you two will get back together and probably break up again. If you try to make it work by next time you get together again, it may work. But it won't be easy, believe me. You are going to have to read some self help books, or go exploring on your own to learn a little more about love! You know what is the most important thing to do right now? It's to call her first, and apologize first if it was really your fault! Use your own judgement on this one (whether you were wrong or right), because she was probably with you first 8 years ago, because she liked your judgements and actions you made back then! Did you know that people like/dislike another person within their first 5 seconds? Don't tell her that you didn't mean what you said, because you can't take back something unless if you turn it into a lie (I didn't mean it), or it shows what little emotional control you have, and how primitive you are. So try to not talk about the past after you apologize and work things out... though this is only what I believe works.

Answer 3

Try sending her a email to "see how shes doing" and take it from there. If she responds (which after 8 years i think she might) then hey they communication door is still somewhat open. After she responds the first time reply back and let her know that you didnt mean the whole "not calling" and all that mess. After 8 years i hope your ex is mature to not just ignore you.
If she dosent respond, then maybe its just better to leave it as it is. I know its gonna be hard, but give her time. 8 years is a long time and she might have got scared!

Answer 4

Women arent as literal and dense as men sometimes can be when conveying emotions ( we say don't call us back, you guys dont call us back, then we call asking why you didn't really call us back!?), she might call back, out of emotional stress with this happening so suddenly. I wouldn't call her and tell her you didn't mean it, unless your sure its really not the end. Otherwise, she will just try to rub it in your face and and make you feel worse.

I think you should move on and keep yourself busy, if she calls then...it was meant to be for now, if she doesn't...maybe shes moved on herself...

Good Luck!

Answer 5

She knows your heart and she knows you're hurt. Here's my thoughts and I live by this motto and believe in it. If you love something let it go. If it comes back to you, it's yours forever. If it doesn't come back, then it was never yours to begin with. Give her the space she wants and look around you, there may be another girl that you will like better.

Answer 6

she most likely will not call for a long time or not at all and if she said she needs space then give it to her b/c then if she does call u it is because she wanted to not because you said you didn't mean not to call if you tell her you didn't mean what you said you look to needy make yourself disappear and she will wonder what you are doing

Answer 7

most likely not. she is most likely expecting you to say the same thing. well, if you want my advice, call her, straighten things out, and see if you can set a date with her to go about your feelings. try to set it on the best day. It's coming this month, the day of romance...Valentine's Day...good luck.

Answer 8

Call her and straighten that out. Better safe than sorry.