please tell me what do i do? do i brake up with him or go out with him?
2007-02-05 12:28:14 · 18 answers · asked by amber c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he can't make up his mind...move on. Because he will play both of you. And you and this other girl will get into it.
2007-02-05 12:32:38 · answer #1 · answered by Lee R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you degrade yourself like that? Dont you feel that you are deserved to have a boyfriend who truly only cares about you, and is a one woman man? I would break up with him and finds someone who's more devoted.
If not, then stay with him. If this happening now and you let him get away with it....prepare for your future together, because its gonna look similar, if not worse.
2007-02-05 12:32:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's common knowledge that most people will like more than one person at a time, it's just how the person deals is that matters. I would suggest you break up with the guy just yet, but if it becomes a nusance (like he keeps mentioning her, or he stares at her or just really gets annoying about her with you) then yes, it isn't to smart to stay with him. He could eventually get oer her and just be with you, but if he has made it known that he likes her, but wants to be with you, i guess it is all right. but like I said, as long as he is loyal to you is what matters.
ask him what he feels (like does he see the relationship going far or not). it is better to talk it out with him.
2007-02-05 12:33:21 · answer #3 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him home. He needs to get his own heart right before he can date anyone. There's good looking people out there always, as well as there are people that are very nice and lovely, but that doesn't mean they are better than you, so he doesn't need to set his heart after another girl.
2007-02-05 12:34:49 · answer #4 · answered by ironman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sorry but its not worth your time if its a new realationship like six months but if its a well over two years or so tell him straight up to make a choice or you will do it for him don't take no crap lots of men out there that will be totally in to you
2007-02-05 12:33:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go out with him and have a nice time. It's just a date, not a contract. He may like you better after you spend more time together.
2007-02-05 12:32:14 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he likes you and another girl too, you need to drop him. He does not sound like much of a "boyfriend" to me. Find someone who wants to be with you and you only.
2007-02-05 12:34:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been by something very similar. my boyfriend change into VERY on the fringe of his ex lady friend/ "acceptable chum" that went to her church and that i didnt understand her. i hate to be unfavourable, notwithstanding it seems the day when we broke up he were given consisting of her. and who's conscious of what they did even as we were nevertheless courting. (he has a participant/cheater rep). :/ good success even with the actuality that. perchance confront him and ask him about it?
2016-11-02 10:31:36 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that you should ask him why he wants to date you if he likes someone else, you shouldn't date a person who likes someone else. If he gives you an answer that you don't like i'd say break up with him sweetie you don't need a guy like that!!!!
2007-02-05 12:38:58 · answer #9 · answered by lvm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!! Kick his *** to the curb! That is totally disrespectful. Obviously this little boy doesnt know what he truly wants. He doesnt deserve you!
2007-02-05 12:31:42 · answer #10 · answered by Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋