what the guy is into you for?
I am pretty experienced...and I just got out of a really long relationship with someone. I am really looking for the right guy, and I am scared that I am just going to find another jerk who is just going to want sex from me.
Besides the obvious of asking, how do you know if he is juts int oyou for sex?
I started dating this new guy... I am really into him, and he seems perfect. He is a youth leader at church, a singer, a guitar player, an excellent student, a sweet, romantic guy, and he tells me all the time that he is crazy about me. We have made out before (one time) and like he would just like place his hand on my lower back and like stroke my back and pull me close in. He would kiss on my neck and stuff, but has never tried anything else. I am just terrified that he is only into me for sex becuase I have been hurt by so many guys so many times who just wanted one thing and I had no idea.
How do I know? Does this guy sound like a keeper?
2007-02-05 12:10:11 · 3 answers · asked by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also i forgot to add. i am not easy. i am not planning on having sex with him right off the bat.
the guy i was with waited 6 months and then we had sex, he stuck around a year longer...but then admitts later it was just sex he wanted. i don't want another relaitonship like that, and i am scared....
we have been best friends for about a year now, so it wasn't like some random guy i met and made out with lol.
we have been very close for a while, and have hung out and talked for over a year... we just now went on a date, and it wasn't weird making out with him or anything since i have known him for so long
2007-02-05 12:10:58 · update #1
you wont know....unless you hang in there for awhile dear.
good luck and love. peace
2007-02-05 12:19:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a totally good question. i crush on this Xtremely cute guy but i wonder if he likes me and if he does why? sorry i couldn't answer but at least i replied!
2007-02-05 12:14:17 · answer #2 · answered by Party Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it -- you ask.
If you don't trust him to give a truthful answer, then maybe your relationship is in trouble to begin with.
2007-02-05 12:14:21 · answer #3 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋