We have broken up several times over the past year, but always get right back together. He has accused me of cheating and we have had huge fights over his jealousness & insecurity. Last week we broke up and he slept w/ an old friend. Then slept w/ me the next day and lied when asked if had been w/ anyone else. Several days laster came clean and told me he did this. We have been talking over the past few day as "friends". Should I get back w/ him?
2007-02-05 12:08:20 · 30 answers · asked by icom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For my opinion, you should just remain friends with him & find yourself a guy who would respect you, someone you can trust & will trust you. Dont worry you'l find somone better.
2007-02-05 12:13:51 · answer #1 · answered by GerMel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, you should get back with him if you really like being accused of cheating when there is not evidence you did and have fights over his jealousy and insecurity and want to break up and get back together again after he's slept with another. The best predictor of future behavior, is past behavior. You owe yourself a better deal than that.
2007-02-05 20:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just the fact that you keep breaking up should tell you to stay away from him. Usually when one partner is accusing the other of cheating, it's either because they are or want to. All the signs point to dumping him and finding a man worth your time. Sexual chemistry only takes you so far, then you need to have love and trust, and it would seem that you don't have that.
2007-02-05 20:13:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, definitely not! His insecurities aren't healthy for a relationship...not to mention that he slept with someone else and lied about it. You can't trust him. Let him go. I know it's difficult, but how much did he love you if he slept with someone else, knowing that there was a chance you would get back together?
2007-02-05 20:14:18 · answer #4 · answered by Galoshes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do u keep breaking up and getting back together? When he slept with her you were only friends and not together at the time? thats pretty messed up, me and my girlfriend are kinda in a rough time at the moment and i wouldnt go f u c k my other friend then call her in a week and try to fix things again
2007-02-05 20:12:16 · answer #5 · answered by billybob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL- once a cheater, ALWAYS A CHEATER! I dont think you should give him the time of day! What is all that about!? He had the nerve to hook up with someother female and the odacity to have sex with you after doing so!? oh hell no, girl- if you have any self respect, you need to ditch this looser. He just little squirl trying to get a nut.
2007-02-05 20:13:26 · answer #6 · answered by Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt :: it would bother you 2 much :: u will feel the need that u have 2 get back @ him :: it will only make things worse :: but if u dont do it and stay wit him it would jus make u feel worthless :: I think that it's jus wrong because he shouldve known better then 2 ever make a move like that :: My advice is 2 jus by pass the stress :: it would make u stronger & allow u 2 lose the pain!!
I hope u do wats best!
2007-02-05 20:16:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is that jealous and insecure don't leave him, run from him. The unbelievable hypocrisy of him always accusing you and he does it himself is over the top. I believe he is "transferring" his own thoughts/actions onto you.
I am serious the breakup could get ugly, this kind of guy can be DANGEROUS.
Drop him so fast he gets a ticket from the dating police!
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2007-02-05 20:15:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure you know deep inside you that getting back with him would be a HUGE mistake! more lies, more sleeping with people.. no. its not worth it. he straight up lied to you. i mean, i would give this some thought. is he really trust worthy? does he have a bad past? if his past has been pretty clean, then i would give him another chance. but one more strike and he's out!
2007-02-05 20:13:20 · answer #9 · answered by confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, he never did cheat. so, if you're worried that he'll cheat, i don't think he will because he never did. however, if you're arguing and his insecurities stopped you guys from having a great relationship, then i don't think you two should get back together. you two just have to decide what its worth. because it sounds, to me, like it would be a big risk w/ a lot of trust issues.
2007-02-05 20:12:03 · answer #10 · answered by LC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it really matter what we say? Your going to get back with him, stop trying to use us to make you feel okay about it.... You know you shouldn't which is why your asking the question but you know you are going to anyways!!!!!
What I want to know is did you wear a condom when you had sex with him right after he had sex with some other girl? Cause if not then I would be running to a clinic and kicking his *%# for not caring about me enough to keep me safe....
2007-02-05 20:12:07 · answer #11 · answered by ♫♪♫ PINKY ♫♪♫ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋