so I m 17 I m in love with 20 year old guy is that wrong .... we have been having sex for 2 years now but we are not together not even close. but we are really good friends. i have known him for 5 years now . I want to be with him but I don't know how he fells. I told him not to call me anymore because I felt like he was just using me and he hasn't called me for days now and I rally miss him . what should I doooooooooo..
2007-02-05 12:08:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
His only interest in you is physical. Back off.
2007-02-05 12:11:55 · answer #1 · answered by MoonDoggie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hold out a little longer. He is smart guy for not calling at least he is doing something sensible. Honestly if you have been having sex for 2 years you would think that you would be in a relationship by now, friendship sex (Fu#k Buddies) dont usually sleep tgeather for that long, its usually a between realtionships thing. The only way to find out how he feels is by asking and discussing your feelings with him. Give each other some space - you may find that he calls you soon - be it a few days to a few weeks, dont call and sound desperate (i'm sure your not) just take things slow after all you've already slept togeather and he has come back for more. I'm sure theres plenty of interests from his side.
2007-02-05 23:03:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
mmkay.. you shouldn't just have casual sex with ppl, but thatz your business not mine.. You really need to figure out how he feels because if he loves you too and wants to make a relationship thatz good. 17 - 20 isn't a bad age split at all.. 3 years isn't that bad and you're 17 itz okay i promise... I'm 15 and my b day is in June... My boyfriend will be 20 in may... itz not bad
2007-02-05 20:15:08 · answer #3 · answered by ksm_623 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, for starters, no i don't think thats wrong or bad or anything. you can't help who you like. second, you basically kicked him out of your life. so, if you want him back you're gonna have to make the first move. however, if you think he was using you, for whatever reason, then i don't think that its a good idea that you get back with him.
2007-02-05 20:16:03 · answer #4 · answered by LC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dear if he gets caught,it will be a lot longer till you get to see him.take it from a older guy,hes just using you to get a little.dump him and get someone more to your own age.someone appreciates you for who you are and not for what they can get off of you.hell hes probably with someone else by now.sorry to have to tell you,but its for your own good.if anyone is going to get him into trouble,dont let it be you.
2007-02-05 20:18:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is guilty of statutory rape and facing a long prison sentence if anyone reports him to the police!
2007-02-05 20:12:08 · answer #6 · answered by Vinnie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call hima nd appologise, tell him how you feel afterwards you'll know if he's using you.
2007-02-05 20:17:12 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him
2007-02-05 20:11:27 · answer #8 · answered by defragmentedbrain 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Follow your instincts and let him go.......................
2007-02-05 20:11:44 · answer #9 · answered by Suzie- Q 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋