Ok I don't know what went wrong.
the problems are I carry fights on for to long and we fight fight for hours but the fights are away about what he has done,
we don't wanna break up because we both love each other and wen we do have fun time, they are the best.
Since we have been together we have been nothing but good, we bought a house, moved in, went on a holiday and evan got a kitten.
I really want this to work. Is there anybody that is really cluey on these problems, mabey we can email so or sumthing. Help I really need Help.
2007-02-05 12:01:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What do you fight about?
If the relationship is so terrific, why argue?
2007-02-05 12:04:56 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are fighting w/ him about things he has done in the past (while you have been dating) then you might want to evaluate why they upset you to the point of causing a fight. Some things you just have to forgive and forget if you want it to work. Stop and think about what you are saying to him when the fights begin, is it really worth loosing him, the house... over? Or do these things bother you so bad that you may never forgive him and then what may be the point of continuing. Because believe me a day will come where is will just say he had had enough of you fighting w/ him over the same thing over and over and then you may loose him.
2007-02-05 20:24:36 · answer #2 · answered by icom 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh girl, i totally know where your coming from! I was in the same situation at one time. I came to the conclusion that it was the fact that we were together for every minute of the day! Its like, gosh- we didnt give eachother nothing to miss. However, in your situation i believe there is a communication factor. There is no reason why you guys should be arguing for hours on end. You guys should try to communicate with eachother better. That willl solve so many problems... good luck with the two of you!
2007-02-05 20:08:14 · answer #3 · answered by Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are the fights you carry on for too long about significant things? Or are you fighting about "safe" things while the basic problems aren't settled? If you both want to "win" arguments more than you want a sound, solid, mutually supportive relationship it's not good.
2007-02-05 20:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you guys married? cus that's a problem, especially buying a house together, how would you guys break up even if you had too? You need to not fight, there is nothing wrong with disagreements but they should be to resolve not to fight.
2007-02-05 20:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by yaabro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dont say that much to make him mad if u guys love each other u wont fight and that is true if u really want it to work! Try to talk things out when u do fight. Do things for him and do what he likes to do. I hope things work out for u guys mabye my advise may help...IDK?
2007-02-05 20:07:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me & my boyfriend was like that :: we eventually get over it :: but it still bother me inside & everyday its the 1st thing that i think about :: i try 2 move on but it jus hurts :: i would say 2 u jus have more fun times together it'll bring the peace back & thats somethin that'll make u not think of it...
good luck!
2007-02-05 20:09:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL. Got a kitten, and you problems didn't go away? Your problem is that you're immature.
2007-02-05 20:05:01 · answer #8 · answered by theangel1025 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yeah okay shoot me anything
metalup87@yahoo.com
2007-02-05 20:04:45 · answer #9 · answered by Metalup87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋