im not the club type person and i dont drink much i dont know many people so what could i do to get out and make new friends???
2007-02-05 11:57:42 · 9 answers · asked by sammi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
New friends can be found in many places other than clubs. Look for friends wherever you go. These are more likely to have things in common with you. Try to put aside your fear of rejection.Think of it this way: If you apply for 20 jobs and are interviewed for 10 but are only offered 1, wasn't all the other rejection worth it? Think of friendships similarly. If you meet someone you find interesting and would like to get to know them further, just ask. Ask if you can have coffee or offer a simple kindness. You may get some rejection. Think about what you could have done differently but don't dwell on it. Move on to the next opportunity.
2007-02-05 12:14:12 · answer #1 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the bookstores, malls, coffeeshops, and chill there for a while. Make eye contact with some guys. I don't like clubs either.
2007-02-05 20:03:18 · answer #2 · answered by Jason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem...funny cause i dont do nothin bout it... 4 u i suggest 2 try on chat or even better go out 2 the mall w a friend or movie theatre...dont b shy..good luck
2007-02-05 20:02:53 · answer #3 · answered by bklynreggioitaly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rejection is part of life dont be afraid of it ok go out and make them u can make one anywhere
2007-02-05 20:01:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get involved with something, volunteer, take a class, learn something new, and treat every new person you meet like he/she is your best friend. If you want to have friends you have to be a friend.
2007-02-05 20:05:20 · answer #5 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All ya do is hang around your other friends friends so if you like this person you are normally sure to like there friends! Right
2007-02-05 20:01:13 · answer #6 · answered by Deadly and Divine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you go to a local gym and take group classes... There is always somebody in the gym willing to chat!!!
2007-02-05 20:00:57 · answer #7 · answered by MissionSuccess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do try to look for a friend, it will come to you when you least expected. after sometime you'll know that you have already found a good friend...
2007-02-05 20:01:32 · answer #8 · answered by mei_77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call me!!
2007-02-05 20:00:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋