is it bad at age 11 you make out with a guy?

Question

cause im 11 and i made out with a 13 year old and he dumped me an hour later.and my so called friend asked him out just to get me mad. is that a good friend. also my other friend tryed to break me and my new boyfriend up.what should i do because i love him and i want nothing to come inbetween us.

Answer 1

You're too young to worry about such things.
Get a hobby, take up a new talent, do some service projects for others.
Yes--it's wrong at your age to "make out." It's just going to lead to other "things" that you are too young to handle.
Have lots of friends and do things together in groups. You have the rest of your life to "pair off." And that shouldn't be at age 11.

Answer 2

well dear, you're only 11. You've got plenty of time to make up and break up. I think you're did not handle this situation very well, she should have told you that she was interested in him before you two made out. I couldn't help but notice that you said an hour later he dumped you. If you ask me this 13 year old just wants to have a little fun. And as far as being in "love", you haven't got there yet. Right now you just have strong feelings for him which is cool, but don't rush things. What's up with your friends ? Either you've got some great taste. Or your friends are just Desperate and Mean. I would keep my options open and see if you can find some other girls with morals..

Answer 3

First off, you shouldn't even be date at such a young age. So that kind of means you shouldn't make out either. Maybe when you're older, it's better. Obviously the so called friend is NOT a good friend for trying to get you mad. Talk to her and see why she really did it. If she really wanted to get you mad, she's not a good friend.

Now about you other friend, maybe she thinks your new boyfriend isn't right or good enough for you. Again, talk to her and understand why. If she's jealous, then maybe she's not such a good friend either.

Lastly, Do you REALLY LOVE your new boyfriend?
will you guys spend the rest of your lives together??
does he feel the same way?
Chances are you two won't end up together because anything can happen anytime. Start dating when it really matters like in college and maybe high school.

Hope this helps.

Answer 4

In middle school, girls usually just do things for attention. You have to be above them though. Never make yourself easy. I've been through the same things as you. I'm not much older than you. I don't really know if I'm giving you good advice or any at all. Just don't think of it like your friends are betraying you. At that age, a guy's attention means a lot to girls who don't get much attention at home. It's a very dramatic time, but you'll look back on it and laugh.

Answer 5

I can tell you before you even read it that you are NOT going to like my answer. But I'm telling you an honest opinion from personal experiences. Age 11 is too early to date. I'm 16 and I have dated. I've found that as you get older, dating becomes more real and things last longer. I think it's good to date, a good way to meet people, learn things about yourself, and discover what you are looking for in a person. But making out is also something that is not meant for people of your age group. If you are every questioning whether or not your relationship is good one that's going to last, take out all the phyiscal stuff (kissing, hugging, etc) and if they don't break up with you after at LEAST a week of nothing physical, then I'd assume that they care about you as a person. Don't let them use you for your physical features, this can be very dangerous. In my best relationship, I never kissed him on the lips, but when he kissed me, it was very romantic and meant a lot to me. Making out is causing your body to not feel that when something little happens. Also, it's important to try to be friends with them after you break up, it shows that you care about them and just don't want to go out anymore. Most people will realize your ability to respect them as a person if you do this. From my experiences, it shouldn't be about physical contact, it should be about the person really caring about you! and as for your 'friend' who asked him out after he broke up with you, I think you may need to try to find friends who are more loyal and caring. A friend should be there comforting you after a breakup, not causing you more pain. And if your other friend is trying to get you to break up with your new boyfriend, look at your relationship and see where it's headed. It may be for the best, or things may work out fine. Either way, best of luck (and yet again, I'm sure there is much I have said that you disagree with and I'm sorry. Just posing my personal opinion)

Answer 6

At 11 years old you should not be making out with boys! All you are doing is ruining your reputation and you will be called all sorts of awful names. A true friend does NOT ask a guy you like out, find other people to hang out with and leave boys alone for another few years.

Answer 7

it is bad to make out at age 11 cause u r 2 young i mean no offence but im 13 and i dont even make out with guys yet it should become an experience for when ur older and i dont mean 2 sound like a no it all or anything but u cant really love any1 til ur like in ur 20's or 30's... if u need any more advice email me so this wont go public...
HOPE THIS HELPS....

Answer 8

Okay first things fist
YOUR 11!!
you really shouldnt be hanging out w/ guys like that. And no that friend that took the bf u were not supposed tb e having anyways was not a good freind. Neither friend is a good freind to tell you the truth.
But what you should do tho, is be careful if u decide to continue having bfs.

Answer 9

wow
drama drama drama
i can relate
just move on!
k?!
maybe you were a bad kisser
don't let that put you down
you're only 11!
and is this true?
if it is. yeah it needs to stop
you're sounding like a little whore
middle school doesn't matter
high school is where the real fun starts
she isn't a good friend... DUH
no friend should ever do that
and i hope this didn't all happen in like. one night
because usually people want a little closure
and you already have a new boyfriend!!
wow
i hope this helps...

Answer 10

I don't think a girl your age should be making out with any boy. For one you will get a bad reputation fast. Second you have some time ahead of you when your in your teens to make out with boys. You should concentrate on school so that the day you get married you have an education to fall back on in case it doesn't work out and he is not supporting you any more. I hope you make the right choice!