i been communicating with a girl my age(42) for about a year now..she lives on oppisite side of the world..shes all i think about..ive only seen her thru cam..we talk thru messenger and letters and gifts.. is internet love possable? she says she feels the same.. give me some feed back...IS LOVE POSSABLE THRU THE NET
2007-02-05 11:52:08 · 16 answers · asked by Lost Boy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that it is in fact possible to feel love when you only talk to someone online. But it is difficult to judge how you would actually get along with them until you meet them in person because I can be totally nice online but be in a terrible mood in my own time.
If you want to continue this you might consider meeting her. If your feelings are really this strong then you should move the relationship to the next level.
2007-02-05 11:55:44 · answer #1 · answered by BetsyLauren 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course if is possible, if its done right...I dont think you can fully love someone until you know them personally but as far as finding a match and knowing there is a great possibility goes, you seem to have that...... you have been speaking for ages, you have seen each other, doing nice things for each other, you trust each other... ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE.
Take a risk, many people have met their soul mates online. Your one of the lucky ones dont let it go :)
Peace x
2007-02-05 19:57:47 · answer #2 · answered by Kira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be in love with the concept of love. It seems like you are inlove with the image that has been portrayed to you. I dont doubt that you love his girl. But dont turn your head to the fact that she very welll may be a differnt person than she puts out to you. Good luck with this one!
2007-02-05 19:56:11 · answer #3 · answered by Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's called virtual reality for a reason- because it's not real. It's infatuation, and you've used your own fantasies to fill in the blanks about a person you don't know. email, text, calls, gifts- that's still virtual reality.
2007-02-05 19:55:38 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you two should meet. I know a few people who met on the internet and have been together for years. You will never know if you don't go for it.
2007-02-05 19:55:03 · answer #5 · answered by Holly S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything is possible. If you were 16 I'd worry about it, but since you're older, I'm sure you had lots of conversations about life, etc. So, what are you going to do about this love. One of you will need to relocate. If you really love her, would you ??? !~~~~
2007-02-05 19:57:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you two are communicating, why not possible? of course it is.
love doesnt know time, distance, race, color, religion....but ld ...it's not easy and can be the worst ever heartache if it doesnt work out! if youve been communicating regularly...just keep it up until you can be together. good luck and love to you! peace
2007-02-05 20:04:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, man...it's waaaaay too easy to hide your faults and advertise your positives on the net.
2007-02-05 19:55:56 · answer #8 · answered by Omni D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend of mine just married someone he met on-line. He flew to NY to see her a few times then she flew here to see him a few times. They made it work, and now they're expecting their first child. =-)
Any thing is possible...
2007-02-05 19:57:14 · answer #9 · answered by Carmen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet her!!! Give it a chance, you have nothing to loose
2007-02-05 19:56:57 · answer #10 · answered by k_lollie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋