I met this woman about two weeks ago, and took her out to lunch. I didnt expect to hear from her again, and started seeing this other woman. I REALLY like this other woman, and want to have a relationship with her. The first girl called me a few days ago and asked me to take her out. So, yesterday, I did with the full intention of telling her that I just wanted to be friends. Well, we went back to my house to watch the super bowl, and one thing led to another and she left the next morning. I feel like to biggest jerk in the world, because I still want to tell her I want to be friends so that I can see the other woman. How should I let her down and cause as little pain as possible?
2007-02-05 11:49:19 · 5 answers · asked by G-Do 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a really nice guy, and I despise what I am having to do. We just went too far way to fast and I dont know what to do. I didnt intend to do what happened, but it did anyway, and really dont want to hurt her feelings, because she is a good person, but I know I have to.
2007-02-05 11:56:52 · update #1
I feel worse right now, than I ever have towards anyone for anything. I am the worlds biggest brown star and I know it. I just dont know what to do, and I dont want to hurt her.
2007-02-05 12:08:31 · update #2
there is no easy way now, you're gonna be the a$$hole that got what he wanted and threw her to the curb... tell her you don't like to move that fast and you feel like a whore.
Or just be honest and tell her the truth!
2007-02-05 12:04:07 · answer #1 · answered by gellybean42 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her. Let her know that you strictly see her as a friend and nothing more. She will probably feel used, since you too went so far so fast. But at least your being honest.
2007-02-05 19:54:02 · answer #2 · answered by Mia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her see your tail between your legs while you tell her the cold hard truth.
2007-02-05 19:52:58 · answer #3 · answered by Zeera 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a hard one to answer buddy...i would just quit talking to her.
2007-02-05 19:52:56 · answer #4 · answered by Ttech 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u are evil i hate men
2007-02-05 19:53:00 · answer #5 · answered by it's HG !! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋