My twelve year old daughter wants to go to the movies with a 13 year old boy from a different school, would it be o.k. to drop them off and pick them up or not?
2007-02-05 11:24:10 · 40 answers · asked by mnspirit69 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
How well do you know this boy? I would allow it but I would go in and sit a few rows back. At 12 and 13 it's group dates or chaperoned dates. Just as a side note, My brother was 13 when he started having sex. Not all 13 year old boys are untrustworthy but this is when is all starts.
2007-02-06 03:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by Ella727 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 05:34:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok i think but your 12 year old daughter is too young to go out with a boy but its really up to you. And i would say yes because it doesnt really matter what age he is. If you was 20 or something like that i would be concerned about that but if he is just 1 year older than her than thats alright
2007-02-05 11:46:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's really up to you. If you trust your daughter enough, it'd be a great sign to her that you do feel you can trust her if you drop them off. I'd ask what movie, make sure of the times, and maybe even offer to buy some pizza afterwards to get to know the kid. As long as your not totally stepping in and making it seem like you don't trust her, you have a great chance to create a new bond of trust between.
WIth my mother I was afraid to talk with her about anything cause she treated me like a child, when she opened up and gave me that bit of trust I didn't feel the need to be keeping quiet.
It's up to you, it can go either way. Good Luck!
2007-02-05 11:30:36 · answer #4 · answered by Bugster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its up to you, but I will tell you this. I had my first boyfriend at thirteen years old. My mom trusted me, but instead of watching the movie I was out in the woods behind the theater having sex. I know a lot of other kids at that age that did it too. I'm not saying your daughter will, but because of what I did I definitely wont let my daughter date at that age. If she wants to go to the movies at that age with boys I will sit in the back and watch them.
2007-02-05 11:30:26 · answer #5 · answered by Prissy_kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, 12 and 13 year olds have no business dating.
2007-02-05 14:20:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Meet the boy in person, either meet the parents in person or over the phone. Make your rules clear . Tell her You are giving her trust and once she breaks it its gone........................ Tell her you trust her. Then give her a talk about sex. Let her know what your expecting as far as her behavior. Drop them off then be there waiting a little early, Make sure she has her cell phone or yours on her in case something goes wrong.
2007-02-05 11:39:37 · answer #7 · answered by tammer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. 12 seems younger than what it really is. 13 and 12 isn't that big of a diffrence. It's fine and most likely if anything were to happen she would be too scared and she would talk to you about it. And if you don't let her go she will be upset because she may feel that you are babying her too much. I say let her go.
2007-02-05 11:47:31 · answer #8 · answered by lilbanananut112 1 · 5⤊ 1⤋
do you know this boy? if not then let them go with a group of people not by themselves. trust me i am 12 and some bad things have happened to my friennds when they went to a movie with an older boy that they didnt know him very well. if you go in a group there is a very good chance nothing bad will happen. if you know him and think you can trust him then let them go. but your best bet is to let them go with a gruop of kids that you know. trust me again i am 12 and she might be all 'its not fair" but it is for the best. i am usually like that myself but you seem like the kind of parent that would want to keep your kid safe.
2007-02-05 11:30:08 · answer #9 · answered by fleur 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes mom don't worry! : ) Your daughter is almost a teenager and she has to to be let go of sometime. Just because she goes to the movies doesn't mean she's doing anything bad. If you stilll feel uncomfortable with the whole idea you can accompany them but sit away from them.. far away. Hope everything works out : )
2007-02-05 11:28:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋