He liked her for a long time, and it seemed like she liked him too but they never got together. Now he's with me and a great job opp. came up for him through her. Am I overreacting by feeling jealous and worried?
2007-02-05 11:21:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope. Many normal people would be concerned.
What's important is to monitor how you let those feelings affect your relationship with him. It's fair to trust him until he's giving you noticeable reasons why doing so might not be a good idea.
If something is happening, you'll know.
2007-02-05 11:24:56 · answer #1 · answered by Buying is Voting 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would feel worryed to. you have every right to be worryed i mean he is a guy not much reasurence there. but if he is a really good guy then it shouldnt be anything. Discuse it with him make sure that his feelings for her are still gone and that this is just a buisness thing. but dont come across as being to suddle or desperate to no the answers. act like what ever goes remember your holdiong all the cards always and you can change things around. dont freeak out on him for answers just act calm and natural just like if you were gunna ask him if he new were your lipgloss had falen or something simple like that. I no being afraid in a situation like that can be hard but trust me by keeping everything in the game in check and nowing everyones cards. you will no what to do and how to make the next move. Good Luck!!!
2007-02-05 19:34:06 · answer #2 · answered by peace love & lipgloss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they never got together, they probably won't in the future, especially if he's serious about you. You should never worry about anything until someone gives you a reason to and you should always trust someone until they give you a reason not to. It's normal to feel jealous and worried but don't let it consume your thoughts to the point where you actually believe he is going to be unfaithful to you. Good luck.
2007-02-05 19:26:46 · answer #3 · answered by Desiree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he has respect for your relationship..you have nothing to worry about. I would give him the benefit of the doubt on this one...especially if it is innocent and a friend helping out a friend. Everyone can use a leg up as long as there are no strings attached.
2007-02-05 19:26:09 · answer #4 · answered by gatorgrad99_99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you're overreacting. If he's a good man, he wouldn't fall for another woman. If he does fall for the girl and break up with you, then he wasn't the one.
2007-02-05 19:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by Kyle47 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider this a good test to find out whether or not he's a keeper.
2007-02-05 19:26:57 · answer #6 · answered by Raven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if he's a player
2007-02-05 19:24:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes....but do you trust him?if you love him ..then trust him...
but don't trust her...
2007-02-05 19:26:32 · answer #8 · answered by hononegah1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋