me and my boyfriend be going out for a year now.I see him as the person who i wanna spend the rest of my life with...as in have kids and get married...!!!but the bad part of the story is my boyfriend doesn't trust me anymore...why??? because...okay i seen this other boy in school who was kind of cute to me...we started to talk and then afterward sex was involve..!!! but knowing i really didn't want to do anything but its still happen...!!!but after everything was over i told him what happen right after it happen..!!! and he was totally angry at me..!! wanting to break up with me or just hurt me really bad......!!! : ( wat do you think he really should did or should of done..!!!!???? : (
2007-02-05 11:15:32 · 2 answers · asked by SupaStarr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow, i think u shouldnt have slept with someone else if u really like him! but u did, and u cant change that, so i think u should talk over it with him, calmly, and try to talk it over. It will take u a long time to regain that trust though.
Hope this helps! :)
2007-02-05 11:25:03 · answer #1 · answered by iloveyou<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me start by saying that i take my( hat off ) to you for having the honesty and integrity to tell your boyfriend about the affair. None of us are perfect and despite the way you know things would go you were honest with him about the affair.
You can't blame him for not trusting you and only time will tell if he is willing to forgive and move on. which ever way things go; you did the right thing for letting him know despite the threat of physical and verbal abuse. For it is better for him to hear it from you than from some one else.
2007-02-05 11:36:38 · answer #2 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋