my best friend of 5 years now got asked out by someone she really likes him but hasnt given him an aswer cuz 3 other guys asked her out and then he asked me out the other day and i really like him like A LOT!! but i dont want to hurt my best friend wat should i do?
2007-02-05 11:12:08 · 22 answers · asked by tootsiewootsie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you REALLY like him, then nothing should stop you. Seems like your girl can't make up her mind.
But if you want to be cautious... then let her decide. If she goes out with the guy, you might be kicking yourself later, but that's better than getting into an argument with her.
2007-02-05 11:20:40 · answer #1 · answered by Kyle47 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON"T GO OUT WITH HIM! u you see if he knows u 3 r best friends than he's testing your friendship with her and no guy is worth i mean sure he maybe hot but thass it don't fool for his tricks. I speak 4rm experience. The guy is now with my best friend and I'm happy 4 her. but lets say he has tried testing our friendship numerous times
2007-02-05 11:17:28 · answer #2 · answered by princess6946407 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communicate it out consisting of your chum asap. with somewhat of success she'll understand and shop thinks sit back between her and the guy. yet pay interest, if issues do not commence picking up between you 2 and also you do not bypass out of the "chum zone" he will merely bypass ask yet another woman out. regrettably, i do not understand what to allow you to already know to get your self out of the chum zone. be constructive you're waiting to bypass your courting up, you not in any respect understand the way it is going to influence your friendship. when you're prepared to take the prospect, then i wager my suggestion should be to flirt extra. in case your used to easily palling round with him in sweats and t shirts, then positioned extra attempt into your visual attraction. when you're already searching gorgeous as you may be, then get waiting for the subsequent dance/social to really WOW him. hair, makeup, gown- cliche i understand notwithstanding it is going to really get his interest. attempt to chorus your self from "making him jealous." that would not paintings out so nicely in authentic existence... i imagine it is all about putting your self in a countless mild. Have your friends communicate about to him how tremendous you appeared in an outfit, or how humorous you're, something that can make him interested in you. i imagine this can finally end up as a crew attempt it truly is why you want to paintings issues out consisting of your chum. or you ought to merely immediately out tell him the way you sense. i have self belief this can be the acceptable way, and once you've the arrogance then please merely communicate it out! good success!
2016-11-02 10:24:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you think that it will bother her leave him but dont let her take him either if she doesnt care go out with him she has 3 more waiting
2007-02-05 11:19:49 · answer #4 · answered by Emilce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet is to take him. If your best friend has other guys to satisfy her why need another one to say no to? Also, she will understand if you just say it in a nice way, she is your best friend right?
2007-02-05 11:16:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your best friend he has also asked you out and see what she says if she says go ahead go out with him them she isn't interested in him so tell him yes..
2007-02-05 11:14:57 · answer #6 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dont get with him of course why would he ask you both to see what you both were about and if you would go that low
2007-02-05 11:16:13 · answer #7 · answered by chica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's not that into him, just ask her if it's okay, and then go ahead. But remember, if she seems hesitant don't push it becuase she might think that you are after all the guys that she likes.
2007-02-05 11:15:39 · answer #8 · answered by B.Cheeks.B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be out to hurt you i have friends at school that do the same thing to get girls and i get angry every time they try to make a move when they aren't insight of there other girls
2007-02-05 11:14:59 · answer #9 · answered by C.W. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa! Just tell your bestfriend "Derek" ask me out. Do you want to go out with him if not I'll go if that's no problem. Then it shouldn't be no hard feels.
2007-02-05 11:18:55 · answer #10 · answered by finesexyandcool26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋