i am 20 years old. i still am living at home, but am trying hard to learn how to be more independant so that i may go out on my own. i recently found out i am pregnant, and am definately going to need my parents to help me out. this also means i probably wont be moving out anytime soon. if i was your daughter, what would be the best way for me to tell you i was pregnant???
the father is my 20 yr old boyfriend, and he will be sticking around to help me
i am still trying to learn better management of my money
only my father works and my mother stays home
my mother was pregnant at 17 with my older sister, but im afraid that she will still be very upset with me
2007-02-05 11:04:25 · 8 answers · asked by xsaraxbethx 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
why do so many people find it hard to talk to their parents.......they love you and will support you no matter what....so JUST TELL THEM!!!!!!!!
2007-02-05 14:46:04 · answer #1 · answered by blah blah blah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was brought up in a very loving and stable home. I found out I was pregnant when I was 18. I was so scared to tell my parents. I waited until about 3 months to tell them, but when I did they were thrilled. Now 4 years later, I live with my husband, my child's father. My parents both supported me 100%, the whole time. My child is the highlight of their lives. I am so proud of the woman I have become. It made me a better person.
It sounds like your parents will be there for you. I would just tell them. Let them know that you will do everything it takes to be a great mom. Let them know that while this baby may not have been planned, it will certainly be welcomed.
2007-02-05 19:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by its me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a twenty year old woman not a little girl and your boyfriend is not a little boy... but a man......both of you should be planning on how to deal with this new situation........
If I was you..I would be talking with the father of this child and make your plans before informing you parents of the up coming babe...if you don't have a job..I suggest you get one..same with your boyfriend..than with both of your incomes combined you should be able to find some kind of living arrangements independent of your parents......than inform them of the babe.....this will go a long ways in making this a less stressful situation for everyone.....and these action will go along way in showing your parents that you are approaching this situation as an adult and not as a child.........
2007-02-05 19:56:49 · answer #3 · answered by LeftField360 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can tell you this you will defenately need to manage your maney right. There is nothing wrong with staying home a little longer to help with your finances. But I really think you should be upfront with your mom and just tell her the truth. Is good that you have a boyfriend around to helpout.
2007-02-05 21:03:18 · answer #4 · answered by rissa1974 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come out and tell them the truth and be as honest as you can. They might be upset, but you are 20 but still living with them. Im sure that they will help and support you as long as you pull your weight.
2007-02-05 20:04:22 · answer #5 · answered by Calais 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are going to have to tell her sooner or later and better sooner then later. i would just pull her to the side and tell her. there really aint a good way to do it then to tell the truth and be honest. they are going to be grandparents soon. it will be hard on them at first but i think they might be happy. i got pregnant at 20 as well but of course i was married at 19 and everyone was happy. i just pull your mom aside for lunch while dad is at work(make it a good lunch) and just talk to her, you will fell better when you just get it off your chest, before she hears about it elsewhere.
i hope that helps you
2007-02-05 19:15:43 · answer #6 · answered by chickster_2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, she has no real say in what you do any more, only very strong suggestions, because you're 20, she should have no problem, and it's good that the father is sticking around...try searching for a good sized appartment in the mean time, and move in before the baby's born. and as for telling your parent(s) try bringing them out to lunch, and casually bring it up, the worst sitchuation is that she won't be too pleased because you're so young, but they'll get over it quickly. they should be willing to help their daughter. good luck to you and the baby!
2007-02-05 19:13:18 · answer #7 · answered by xXLadyBladeXx 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell them. I'm sure they will be supportive.
2007-02-05 19:09:31 · answer #8 · answered by pooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋