I promised my girl to be 100% faithful to her , but in return She cheated on me 3 good times and i forgave her and she sweared at each case , to never do it again . Should i cheat on her to teach her a lesson?
2007-02-05 10:53:43 · 23 answers · asked by Akel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no!! be the biger person....dont stoop to her level..... just dumpher and show her u can do better
2007-02-05 10:59:47 · answer #1 · answered by ..cHeRi.. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the first time she cheated on me i would call it a day and move on. I don't know what she may have done for you in the past for you to stay with some one that cheated on you.
I personally would not stay in a relationship and cheat on her just to teach her a lesson. I would find some one else and move on as there are other people out there.
For if this person really cared about you she would not cheat on you after you promise to be 100 % faithful to her in the first place. The choice is yours to stay in such a relationship or ( Call it a Day ) and move on.
You decide
2007-02-05 19:17:53 · answer #2 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, two wrongs don't make a right. Be the better person. Why haven't you left her? Especially after three times???!!! Any woman would be lucky to have you for a man. It's the good, patient, faithful one's that are hard to find and always get with the girls that cheat on them. Don't cheat on her, just leave her, you can do better. You can find a woman who won't cheat. A person can only do to you what you allow them to. If you let her cheat and keep taking her back, she will think you'll always take her back and continue to do it.
2007-02-05 19:02:10 · answer #3 · answered by ladystarrchild107 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. Cheating out of revenge will only hurt you more. You said that you made a promise to her to be 100% faithful. If you really meant it (and I think you did), you should remain true to your word. She has shown you that she does not value you, so nothing you do can harm her. She is really missing out on a relationship with a loving and caring guy. Move on and be happy. You deserve better, and you will find better.
2007-02-05 18:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by monica_dietz@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like they say in movies "no, then you'd just be lowering yourself to her level"
Dont cheat on her.. just dump her... which is what you should have done from the beginning.
Plus, think about it... how are you going look, if a future girlfriend finds out that you cheated on someone just to get back at them? Think about it...
2007-02-05 19:02:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha no come on that wont do anything i think you are a sweet guy and there are hot mice girls like me that wont cheat and we treat our men good
you need to let go hunny and move on she will cheat agian cus she knows she can get away with it and you will forgive her just end it
its the best thing to do for both of you
2007-02-05 18:58:31 · answer #6 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, two wrongs do not make a right. just dump her and find someone who will be faithful to you too. this will teach her more than if you cheated back. chances are she wouldn't care if you cheated so it wouldn't teach her anything.
2007-02-05 19:06:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No just because she did you wrong dont mean you do her wrong.Im not sayin that u should stay in the relationship and let her run you over.But sweetheart she take you as a joke.She know you not going no where.So therefor she's going to take advantage of it.If she really loved you she would'nt cheat on you.So let her go.........
2007-02-05 19:01:34 · answer #8 · answered by hot_like_coffee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It won't teach her a lesson, Dude. If she hasn't learned and she's done it THREE times, you need to give her the ole, three strikes and you're OUTTA HERE, routine!
Don't waste your time playing games. Find a girl that will treat you right, there are plenty of them!
2007-02-05 18:58:03 · answer #9 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No screw teaching her lessons. If she has cheated three times, she wioll continue to cheat. Don't do a revenge hook-up, jsut dump her dumb as$. you can find someone who WON'T cheat on you.
2007-02-05 18:57:31 · answer #10 · answered by Heart of Gold 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i think its time to dump her.. i mean 3 times?? shes obviously not too attached to u to cheat on u 3 times. u deserve better.
2007-02-05 19:02:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋