A woman I work with has always been flirty with me but over the last days has been dropping heavy hints about wanting to meet me. She's really attractive but also one of the main managers and is married. What should I do?
2007-02-05 10:31:32 · 34 answers · asked by micktravis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
bang her. plain and simple.
2007-02-05 10:33:40 · answer #1 · answered by spankypants 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Messing with a Married woman is not a good idea; not to mention putting you in a world of trouble. Don't give into her affections as that will be one thing you will regret.
She being a manager as you mention can make your life miserable if she don't have her way with you.
All i can say again is that those types of relationships with a married person, can and will put a plight on your life; things will have a way of happening to you.
2007-02-05 10:44:27 · answer #2 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away! Office relationships can spell trouble-- especially when one of the parties is married. Think of what could happen if you get caught by co-wrokers. No one wants to be the subject of office gossip! Also, if you were to break up later on down the road (which seems inevitable in this case), are you sure you could continue working with her? Will her feelings, or yours, be hurt in the end?
2007-02-05 10:35:26 · answer #3 · answered by monica_dietz@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Shoot! OMG! lol. i'm a girl but I'm gonna answer this. I dont wanna sound gross or anything but do what that first guy said! Cuz its not your fault for having sex wit her! Thats her dang fault! It's always like this on tv:
1. girl likes you
2. she KNOOOWS that she has a husband and children at home
3. she wants you ( obviously something is going completely wrong at home)
So you need to do what you want to do. If you wanna *cough *cough BANG her than do it! Just use protection and make sure that she aint pregnant with yo child! lol.
2007-02-05 10:37:08 · answer #4 · answered by coconc93 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her know you really like her and she reminds you of your girlfriend..who you are planning to suprise on Valentines day with an engagement ring..also how much you want to settle down and have lots of children to the wonderful woman you love....if all else fails RUN!!!!
2007-02-05 11:17:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to keep your job, i'd suggest leaving well alone, if anything happens, it will be your @rse on the line when it all goes pear shaped. If your happy to find another job when she gets bored, then carry on!! I'd also consider keeping some sort of diary. if a man did that he'd be up for a sexual harrassment tribunal before he could say get your kit off!
2007-02-05 10:38:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Politely tell her that you find her very attractive and if she were
not married you would be delighted to go out with her socially.
2007-02-05 10:34:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I slept with one of our directors who's married and never got fired!
Depends on how attractive you think she is?
I presume you're not married, so go fo it!!
2007-02-05 10:47:56 · answer #8 · answered by Éan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't touch this situation with a ten foot pole. Nothing worse than a pissed off manager when the relationship ends your employment will too
2007-02-05 10:35:01 · answer #9 · answered by Grianagh 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Married? Keep right away. You have been warned (in a friendly manner, of course) Good luck!
2007-02-05 10:34:31 · answer #10 · answered by R.E.M.E. 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go for it! It'll either result in a promotion or, at the least, you'll be able to blackmail her for a pay rise.
2007-02-05 10:34:39 · answer #11 · answered by ? 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋