my ex finished with me 4 weeks ago over an argument at work. She was with me for 8 weeks and got with me 4 weeks after leaving her 4 year bf. Over the past 8 weeks i have been with this girl i treated her like a princess, spoilt her with gifts i was tooo nice 2 her. Now wen i ask her to get back with me she says she likes me, she fancies me, and has got feelings for me but can only give me friendship for now. i really really like her what do i do ??? i used to txt her and ring her often, and now i have stopped doing that. i have not txt her for 2 days now and she hasnt either, my ex gf doesnt usually send sms first nobody, even if her best mate doesnt txt her she doesnt txt either. i want to give her some space but also find out if shes ok, how many days or weeks after should i txt to see if shes ok and if she is feeling different ? Also her parents are on holiday for a week so i know show wont miss my attention as much because she is enjoying her self while her parents are away! help
2007-02-05 10:23:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being brutal about this - its over move on and find someone who appreciates you for being you. Lifes a ***** mate get used to it .
2007-02-05 10:28:08 · answer #1 · answered by plasterur 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say sit down with him and have a heart to heart conversation. Be honest and tell him about your regret, etc. Ask him why he's still dating this girl if she's just a "rebound" and he doesn't really like her. But don't try to force anything if he doesn't want to talk or is too uncomfortable. Also, don't keep letting him kiss you if he's not going to date you; it's a waste of your time, and you're right, it's not fair to his gf. And if he won't listen to your good reason and come back to you, it's time for you to move on. Then again, if you're not ready for a serious relationship, why are you dating? Just something to think about.
2016-05-24 19:36:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it love you feel, or are you sad for the end of a relationship that you put so much into? After a 4yr relationship break, she moved on too quickly, and even if you were ready she wasn't. I doubt she will ever get back with you because you will always remind her of a period of her life that, unfortunately for you, is connected to her ex. You were right to treat her well, and any woman you meet in the future, you will never find love if you treat someone otherwise
2007-02-05 10:35:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what i red you are one of the nicest guys living. Me personally I woud do the same as her. I mean give her some time. I know it must b difficult cos u like her so much but try to ignore her for change a let her b the 1one to make a move. When I had a nice boyfriend in past who treated me as a princess I started to using him. But as soon as he stopped giving me all the attention I was confused and wanted to know what is happenign.
Give her a plenty of time and I guarantee you she will call or text you.
2007-02-05 10:47:05 · answer #4 · answered by nikiky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes just got out of a long term relationship give her space
2007-02-05 10:33:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her let her go if she comes back shes yours if she dont her heart was never over her ex... sorry but its true.. better to of loved and lost and all that....... let her come back to you in her own time if she wants... but dont wait around forever.. give her a time frame and if she dont come back then walk away with your head up high.. you will find someone who deserves you... thats a promise!
2007-02-05 10:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by tikketiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on...8 weeks is nuthin to those 4 years the other guy did.........................and u kinda messed up spoiling her like that 2
2007-02-05 10:30:07 · answer #7 · answered by captinstunna2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's back with her ex....forget her......
2007-02-05 11:00:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋