My wife just underwent an operation for a tumor of the brain(Benign). How do I support her?

Answer 1

Here are some supportive ideas, I Hope this helps:

1) Be there for her emotionally and listen to her feelings.
2) Hug her often and try to boost her spirits by talking of fun things after her recovery.
3) Make her breakfast in bed with a rose on the side.
4) Kiss her for no reason.
5) Tell her she is beautiful and that she is strong and brave.
6) Plan a trip with her that you will go on after her recovery.
7) Reassure her about her worries and take care of some burdens she usually deals with.
8) Try to be upbeat and lighthearted
9) Buy her a box of her favorite chocolates
10) Hold her hand while you're watching TV or in bed before bed.
11) Tell her often that you love her.

Answer 2

You didn't say if your wife was left with any residual speech or cognitive difficulties. If that is the case, you are going to have to give her all the love that you can muster. She will need your shoulder to cry on and lean on --figuratively and maybe, literally--as she adjusts to her new limitations. Initially, you will probably have to help her with activities of daily living but, hopefully, with the aid of rehabilitation therapy, she will become more and more independent with time. Besides showing your loving support, be patient! I know that that is easier said than done. But patience is key to maintaining a day-to-day working relationship. Best to both of you!

Answer 3

Patience is the key. Just be there for her, she needs your love and understanding.

Answer 4

Be there for her in all ways possible. That means phisically and emotionally etc....

Answer 5

HELLO, MY WIFE IS PART FILIPINO AND HER FILIPINO BOSS SUFFERD AN ANURYSM. FROM WHAT MY WIFE SAID BRO, BE PATIENT AND LOVING AND PATIENT.