Here's the deal, my ex-boyfriend and I were together for 3 1/2 years. We basically broke up because I wasn't ready to settle down and have kids, yet he is. I guess he started to resent me so we broke up last March. I was hurt when he said he didn't love me anymore. Now it's been 10mths since we broke up (and he was almost out of my system) but he started coming back around as of last month. So to my surprise, he's been affectionate and lovey-dovey again. Well, here's the kicker...he told me right after we broke up, he got a girl pregnant!! Could I be anymore hurt? So, ofcourse I still love him the same as I always did but now I'm confused. He says he doesn't even want to be with the girl. I'm not sure if that's game he's running?? I don't wanna cut him off completely. Guys, what the hell should I do??
2007-02-05 09:48:24 · 10 answers · asked by qutegyrl_81 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to cut ties with this guy. He got a girl pregnant right after you broke up? That means he started sleeping around right after you broke up and didn't even use protection! What does that say of his feelings for you? Not only that, but he doesn't "even want to be with the girl"? It sounds like he is not taking responsibility for the child (I don't know if that's true or not). What a piece of work...Tell him that actions speak louder than words and his actions are those of a loser.
2007-02-05 09:55:02 · answer #1 · answered by akivi73 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok dont mess around with this guy if he got a girl pregnet an after so long of him being gone an all an now hes running back to you ,
dont even play this game its hurtfull an very painfull its ez to see that he's just playin a game that he got him self stuck in dont be apart of it. if he loved you he wouldent of broke it off an went around an started sleeping with every girl he could find.
hes using you as a rebound an do not fall in to that trap
2007-02-05 17:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by SGT SEXY MAMA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop Fu*king with him. ok you didn't want to settle down with him then. Now he has even more baggage. He didn't respect the fact you wanted to wait to start a family that is a BIG decision. Then within a year he has a new family and trying to skip out on them to be with you. The fact you asked the question is telling me you already know what's up ....
2007-02-05 17:53:36 · answer #3 · answered by Diva Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut him off completely! I know it's easier said than done but unless you want to be miserable and deal with lots of "baby momma drama", nip this relationship in the bud and move on.
2007-02-05 17:53:00 · answer #4 · answered by Edith Piaf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, is he going to be there for his child? If not I would advise to stay away from him. If you still love him and want to be with him I would only date him but no sex. Especially if he's not going to be responsible for the child he created. To me he sounds like he's just telling you what you want to hear.If your not careful he could do the same thing to you.
2007-02-05 17:59:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anna S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That guy's an asshole. Good guys don't knock up girls outside of marriage. It's that simple. Find a better guy. There's plenty out there.
Plus, did you say he knocked that girl up while you were still going out with him? Again: asshole!
2007-02-05 17:52:05 · answer #6 · answered by croato87 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yew deff need to stop that, yew are both giving each other completely mixed and horrible signals if i must say...this breaks hearts, and yew should stop this b4 yew get hurt, jsut a word of advice
2007-02-05 17:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by &d. i. l. i. hawt; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go back to that scum! he wants you to except his child i would'nt go back i dont care how loving he pretends to be dont let the kindness fool you its a hiddden agenda involved
2007-02-05 18:18:17 · answer #8 · answered by MRS.BLONDIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run Run RUN from this guy! He will only ruin your life and cause you untold misery and pain. RUN!
2007-02-05 17:59:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as much as it might hurt.........u shud let him go cuz wut if his grlfriend found out u two were fooling around....that wudnt b good good luck
2007-02-05 17:52:11 · answer #10 · answered by Monisha G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋