my bf broke up with me 3 months ago and i thought over time i would get over him over time but i am still longing 4 him.
he could make me feel happy by jst lookin at me and the time we went out for were the gr8est days of my life as i was happy constantly.
now all i ever seem to do is sit and cry and i think about him constantly and the fact i still have 2 see him in school every day really doesnt help matters.
i think i am only ever gonna get bk 2 being my old self is if i can get him bk but i dnt no wot i can do 2 win him over.
wen we broke up it came out of the blue completely nothing had happened between us which has always confused me and because i dnt no wot i done worng i dnt no how to fix it :(
2007-02-05 09:27:44 · 7 answers · asked by jackie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello,
Hey honey, it's time you sorted yourself out, and looked elsewhere, he really isn't for you, or he would be with you, so go find another, take your tissues with you in case you fail, you are looking for a boy who will make you laugh at yourself, and oneday soon I hope you will not need to carry tissues with you except to blot your tears of joy, this is when you have got to where you want to be, in love again. there are always other things in the wild blue yonder then broken hearts, it is the sunniest place on the planet, so look for him, do you have a school web-site for lonely hearts, no? Well, start one, you got through to me, and I am in England. do it girl, way to go! well it might be, Hope I helped, Oh, and you camn smile here ;-) and here's a flower for you too, @--%----- (look sidways at it )
xXx Tony M
2007-02-05 09:49:02 · answer #1 · answered by tony m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was your first love, you will always love him, loads now, in twenty years it will be more concern than love. I split with my first love 12 years ago and still feel a bond. Best thing i did looking back, but i thought about him all the time for about 6 years after. You wouldn't be normal if you weren't hurting. Its easy for me to say now I'm 30 but this will make you a stronger, wiser woman. expect a couple more broken hearts(that's life). And remember men don't grow until at least 40 and can easily say 'i love you' or 'we are forever' without meaning.
2007-02-05 09:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by KATIE K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun you just need your friends around you and time.
he is your ex. that means he is in your past.
and he dumped you and your worth more than that.
he sounds very immature and you can do so much better.
try to ignore him the best you can walk away from him when you see him ect.
good luck. and dont run after a guy. if they arent running after you then hes not worth the effort.
its hard first love always is but you will get over it.
2007-02-05 09:35:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got my bf back... because he said "5 months ago i kinda had enough of us, but thats kinda gone now and i miss you"
So i think the key thing is to love you're self, be happy and if he see how happy you are without him, he will realise what he is missing and want you back :)
Goood luck:) And it might not feel like it now, but there are a lot more guys out there :)
2007-02-05 09:38:35 · answer #4 · answered by Simone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First loves a ***** eh? Best not to go back, move on it's all part of growng up.
2007-02-05 09:34:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anchor Cranker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say if you want him back talk to him let him know what he means to you
2007-02-05 09:36:02 · answer #6 · answered by top cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run naked through hot coals
2007-02-05 09:32:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋