iv been with my boyfriend 4 about 11months now i love him very much but i moved away from home 2 be with him but i miss home so much and my family and we ant been geting on that well 4 about 4monthes now should i call it a day and go home or should i stay and stick it out and see what happens but i no if i go i will miss him and it will brake my hart
2007-02-05 09:27:11 · 10 answers · asked by Danielle S 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my family is in skegness and im in sheffiled
2007-02-05 09:46:02 · update #1
Wow, you are in a really tough spot. It is always very, very difficult to leave home, especially if it's for someone that's "stealing" your family's affections. I know my parents had a very difficult time when I started spending more time at my boyfriend's than my own family's.
Exactly how far away did you go? Are you across the country, or half a city away? If you're somewhat closeby (as in, you wouldn't mind spending the gas money), you should go home-- for a few days. As painful as it may be, you need to talk things out with your family. Express to them how you feel in a calm, rational manner (there is nothing worse than an all-out fight with your parents!). If you don't feel comfortable discussing this with them face to face, at least talk to them on the phone. You can arrange a visit then.
Once you've ironed things out with the fam, it'll be easier to go back home every so often. Encourage your boyfriend to come with you; it is obvious that you love both him and your family very much, and it only makes sense that you would want all of them to get along, right? If he knows that you're missing home (and you should be honest about this to him, too), he should love you enough to respect your wishes. Good luck!
2007-02-05 09:36:45 · answer #1 · answered by janeowyn180 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love each other, can't you go home and stay together? just cos you move back in with your family doesn't mean it's over. Move home, date and try again when the time is right!
2007-02-05 17:38:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps being homesick has affected your relationship but in the same token the relationship itself has created a divide between yourself and your family.
Therefore it raises the question: Marriage or is it just puppy love?
'YES'- You and your husband can unite with your family.
'NO'- Unless BF is accepted at home, dump him or live with it.
2007-02-05 17:43:20 · answer #3 · answered by Ta 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's not going that well WHY STAY.
This should be the happiest part of your life.
Two people fighting or lacking attention etc.. makes no sense.
If you are unable to resolve your differences move on and find your Prince Charming.
He's the one who will make you his world.
2007-02-05 17:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by Johnny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If its true love on both sides, no abuse then why don't you stay and see what develops there will be ups and downs in every realtionship and if you always run away from them you will never establish nothing... True sh*it...believe me.
2007-02-05 17:32:29 · answer #5 · answered by Diva Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you going to break your heart thats not good but as you stated you going to break your "HART", i wont worry for thers no such thing.
Go back home if he loves you he will follow.
2007-02-05 17:32:36 · answer #6 · answered by tewarienormy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u say things aint workin out then they aint workin out
if u stay u r jst prlongin the inevitable.
go bk to ur family u will feel sad but u will ahve ur family to help you get thorugh it
2007-02-05 17:32:51 · answer #7 · answered by jackie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry only you can decide if you love your boyfriend then you will decide what is best.Good Luck
2007-02-08 15:26:46 · answer #8 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, thats an interesting question! lol! 20/F wondering the same thing... holla back
2007-02-05 17:32:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
join the circus
2007-02-05 17:32:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋