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If U don't think it will scare her away, U could tell her you've fallen in love with her & see if she tells you her feelings are the same. Or, if you're afraid it might be more than she wants to hear right now, U could just tell her you're STARTING to fall in love with her & that U hope she's falling in love with U too. She'll probably give you a clue as to where you stand. Good luck & don't forget her on Valentines Day!

2007-02-05 09:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by SmallVoiceInBigWorld 6 · 0 0

Well what you're asking for is a difficult question to answer. It's really hard to say, because only you know how she is. If I had to say how you would know if a woman loves you, is through the " little things. " women are funny sometimes, one day they love you the next day, they hate the site of you. Just think about how she acts when she's around you: is she comfortable around you, does she enjoy your company, has she done something for you that normally would require a favor in return, but never ask for it?

What you have to understand is that:
1. Some women just like men a lot.
2. Some women just get use to the person they're with.
3. Some women actually love their boyfriends.
4. Some women are good at lying directly in your face.

Don't dwell on it. If you think she loves you, continue to show her the same love. Unless you see otherwise, then that's when you make a decision on how you feel about her. I'm not saying be a fool in love, but until you're absolutely sure just don't put yourself all the way out there....... ya dig?

2007-02-05 10:02:37 · answer #2 · answered by 00silky 4 · 0 0

There is a lot of signs that contribute to the message. How does she react when you are around? Does she treat you differently (in a good way) than others? Does she ever touch you when she talks to you? Does she seem in a better mood when you are present or near? Very important are her eyes and smile. Do they light up when she sees you? Is her smile her first reaction when she sees you? Does she stay close to you when she can?
If she displays these type signals, you are probably in for a treat. But these are only signs. if you are at this point, you need to ask her out, hold her hand, or maybe attempt to kiss her. Watch her response to your advances.
If already dating, and you have these signals, you may be able to tell her how you feel, and see if she responds in kind. make sure when you talk to her about it you are alone, maybe somewhere quiet or romantic. Not at a ball game or something real public.

2007-02-05 09:36:45 · answer #3 · answered by TopCatt 4 · 0 0

Some Points on How to Define Love:

Love is wisdom in action. Love is action and no action together. Love is all that is. Love knows nothing but love. Love transcends mind. Love is a feeling you feel when you feel you're feeling a feeling you never felt before. Love is the inner substance of light. Love is an effervescent feeling that seems to escape definition.

There are four kinds of “love” -AGAPE, PHILEO, STORGE, and EROS in ancient Greek culture.

Agape love is an unconditional love. It loves and cares when there is no apparent reason to care. Example is the type of love God shows toward us.

Phileo love is that “something” that you see in another person that draws you to be their friend.

Storge is a physical show of affection like Hug and Kiss that results from a pure motive.

Eros is the fulfillment of the physical sexual desire that a husband and wife show toward each other.

Additional points:
1. Consider if he/she is always there for you, and if you are always there for him or her.
2. Think about whether you'd feel the same way if the other person's looks were to change.
3. Remember that it must be unconditional to be pure love.

Tips:
* Read 1 Corinthians 13 in the Bible, the Love Chapter
* For inspiration, read Elizabeth Barrett Browning's famous poem, "How Do I Love Thee," "http://www.poets.org/viewmedia.php/prmMID/15384"
* If you feel the flutter of butterflies in your stomach, Cupid has probably shot you with his arrow.
* Make sure it's not lust, but love.
* Be aware during those moments when you feel love towards anyone or anything.
* Capture that feeling with metaphors, and string them all together into a poem.
* Put your description of love to a melody and write a song.
* Find objects that symbolize your love (rings and roses are classic examples) and give them to whomever you love.
* Lust could lead to love.

Warnings:
* When you find true love, be careful. That type of love remains with you forever.
* True love may come only once in a lifetime. (keep reading)
* Just because you feel this way doesn't mean the other person does!
* If someone tells you true love only happens once, they have seen too many Disney films. People are capable of loving many times, so if your "true love" turns out to be abusive or makes you cry more than smile, don't hang on just because you think you will never love this way again.
* Remember that your friends love you too, and if all of your friends think there is something wrong or unhealthy with your relationship/infatuation, you should really examine that. You may think that they don't see what you see in someone. However, they may see something that you don't too. They love you and want you to be happy, and that's what you need to remember when thinking about the concerns they express about your chosen partner.
* Remember there are many levels of love, and pure love is unconditional love. Just because someone says they love you doesn't mean they love you purely nor that they don't love you. Their actions will tell.

2007-02-05 09:39:07 · answer #4 · answered by OSCARITO 2 · 0 0

Be honest with her and tell her truly how you feel. Love is one of through things that you never know what will happen. She might come back and tell you right then how she feels but if she doesn't let her have some time to think about it. The best thing you can do for yourself and anyone your with is to be honest with yourself and them. Be who you are and trust in that.

2007-02-05 09:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Time and Patience ...don't push it ...everything relationship is good in the beginning ..wait awhile and then you won't have to ask that question you will feel it

2007-02-05 09:27:23 · answer #6 · answered by Diva Dee 2 · 0 0

ask her out if she likes u she says yes if she says no then no or ask a friend who is a girl to help u ask her to ask ur crush if she likes u but first one is easier up to u

2007-02-05 09:26:19 · answer #7 · answered by mattx14x23 1 · 0 0

There's no way to know for sure. The best that you can do is to ask her out.

2007-02-05 09:26:33 · answer #8 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0 0

so simple hun, tell her yew love her, [as yew said yew do] if she answers that then seh loves yew[[duhh]] and if not then she isnt there yet, good luck=]

2007-02-05 09:27:30 · answer #9 · answered by &d. i. l. i. hawt; 3 · 0 0

she will pay attention to you, she will want to know about you and ask you questions,

2007-02-05 09:28:52 · answer #10 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0 0

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