have not had my fair share of good luck with women, but i must say i am polite and may comment on women's hair or clthes if they look good.
2007-02-05 09:21:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe that anything you say that's sincere is flattering, some women (myself included) don't take it well, because either we don't feel attractive or feel we look it, think you're full of it, or think you're hitting on us. Unfortunately for you men, you can never win.
If you feel you are saying these things sincerely, then stay that way, one day you'll find a woman who's responsive to the flattery, also try flattering them on non-physical characteristics if you know these women.
2007-02-05 09:26:07 · answer #1 · answered by Heather S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"You have really pretty eyes", "You have a nice smile" - noticing the little things is really good, as long as it is said in a natural evasive way.
"You're the sweetest person I know" - it may sound cliche but one guy said that to me and I could not suppress a blush.
Teasing is great, not like cruel jokes but in an affectionate way. It shows a playfulness and shows you care, I've always been attracted to that, it works for me everytime.
I would say that more than anything that a person's behavior and the way they treat someone is the most attractive. It is subtle but gets the point across. ;)
2007-02-05 17:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by delovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but no 'flattery' is going to make me feel good and be more attracted to any man. Try being a 'good friend' first and foremost ... that is what my husband was to me and I was to him and we were both 'very surprised' to find out that had 'turned to love' and we've now been married for 10 years and are just as 'in love' as we were the day we got married.
2007-02-05 17:38:33 · answer #3 · answered by Kris L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Comments on natrual beauty assets are better. eyes, smile, beauty marks, freckles. Or nice comments on a girls personality. But hair and clothes are nice too, just may not quite grab her attention the same way.
2007-02-05 17:29:27 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be attracted to him unless I liked him. The comments might help me have more feelings for the person but it would not be the sole reason I dated them.
2007-02-05 17:25:52 · answer #5 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well thats good, just remember dont say...whoa yer a hottie! say yew look gorgeous, or yew are beautiful, i suggest the second one, and dont look like a stalker or like yew are just some guy hitting on them but that yew admire them, that should the trick, good luck=]
2007-02-05 17:26:11 · answer #6 · answered by &d. i. l. i. hawt; 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i like the guys that call me by my full name... elizabeth is 9 letters. some guys are just lazy and only call me liz, whick is fine, dont get me wrong. but when a guy takes the time to call me by my full name i get tingles. that or when they call me by a nick name that he has given me and no one else uses...
2007-02-05 17:27:49 · answer #7 · answered by biz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"You are a very beautiful woman."
"You are the most beautiful woman in the room/at this party."
"You are very vivacious" or "elegant"
Hair or clothes is not strong enough, not really seductive. Compliment HER.
2007-02-05 17:27:50 · answer #8 · answered by F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm attracted to men who make me laugh!!!i don't want his flatter cause i know i look good!![not trying to be a snob here!]make me laugh that makes me feel good!!!i don't like serious guys!!
2007-02-05 17:34:57 · answer #9 · answered by ....FED UP............ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem like a sweet guy i'd wait for the right girl
2007-02-05 17:26:33 · answer #10 · answered by Janet K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋