my boyfriend and i fight alot. most of the time i don't even know why. he is in a bad mood or something like that and he picks a fight with me. im also 3 months pregnant. we have been fighting almost everyday now for 3 or 4 months. i love him very much and i know that he loves me. he does not hit me. i have no family here so i can leave for a few days and let him calm down. i have told him this is not good mostly because i am pregnant. he also has a 5 yr old i watch alot he hits me and when he gets in trouble his dad dosen't keep to it. what do i do
2007-02-05 09:05:39 · 8 answers · asked by tattoogirlaz1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my ex-boyfriend and i were constantly fighting thats all we ever did and we were both miserable. you can try and work it out but if you keep fighting it might be better for both of you. "sometimes love isn't enough" i believe that. you can't just be in love and expect everything to fall into place. it takes work. and that is no environment to bring up a child...the two of you fighting all the time. that is not going to teach him/her very good relationship skills.
2007-02-05 09:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you leave, it sounds like you don't have much of an option on where to go. This is not a healthy relationship for you or the children to be involved. I suggest that you find you a job, save up your money and get your own place. Maybe that will make him see that there is changes to be made. You could even ask him if he wants to go to counseling for his anger. But the sure thing is that this is not a healthy relationship.
2007-02-05 09:11:33 · answer #2 · answered by Sharon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you and your bf live together and you are carrying his baby you need to let him know that you are the mother figure in the childs life when he is there. and you should be able to discipline him. you bf might just be insecure about you having a child. you are not married and he already has one child. don't let his picking fights get you down. tell him that he should calm down and talk to you rationally.. if he can't see what he's doing sometimes men need to be reminded. my husband used to pick fights with me sometimes and i would make him wait until he calmed down. hope that helps. keep in mind that you need to do what is right for YOU AND YOUR UNBORN CHILD!!
2007-02-05 09:11:57 · answer #3 · answered by lsubabe1086 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give him some time to cool down like mabey alot! your situation dosen't sound that bad. your doing pretty good talk to him and straighten it all out.
2007-02-05 09:09:28 · answer #4 · answered by sunnydawg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stress during pregnancy has been linked to Attention Deficit Disorder in children so try and find some peace.
2007-02-05 09:09:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
dump him hes a 0 looks like you need a hero
2007-02-05 09:09:13 · answer #6 · answered by happyman82385 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GUD 4 U GAL
2007-02-05 09:08:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch him!!
2007-02-05 09:39:14 · answer #8 · answered by devil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋