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OK I HAVE THIS PROBLEM THAT I JUST DONT CARE ABOUT **** MY FATHER HAS ****** UP MY HEAD SO BAD THAT IT ACTUALLY SCARES ME I JUST HAVE A HUGE HATRED FOR SOCIETY AND ANY POWERING OFFICIAL

2007-02-05 09:01:06 · 5 answers · asked by Brandon D 1 in Health Mental Health

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i sometimes find myself hating society too. not trusting anyone but i love my parents, society made me not liike them. now i regret being so distant from my parents.

2007-02-05 09:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by proby_girly 1 · 0 0

now you are not mad at the world, your mad at yourself, your father, and your life.
the reason why you are so brash towards a higher power is because of the way you where treated while you where a child.
you claim that your dad screwd with your head right.
now apparently your father had the upper hand, the leadership, the demands and therules.
i reckon that you keep hearing the same things in your head, and thats why your fathers words, and actions scare you to this very day, no matter where you go how far you run, or how lucky you become, your dads critisizum will always be there right beside you, as if he was really there.
hun you are a product of your own environment, you need to realizr that what you know is wrong, and not true, you need to see the world in a different way, yes this isnt a so called ''one love'' planet, but someday you will realize this hun..
i know it sounds eaiser said then done but you need to let go.
im sorry if this dont help you any.
my ex went through so much growing up, that violence, and abuse was apart of his learning in the family, alcoholisuim, drug abuse and violence towards women and everyone.
i had to leave, and i do understand you.
trust me i stuck it out for 4 and a half years, and i finnally said, enoughs a nuff.
he brought me down and i couldnt do it anymore, he too f***ed with my head, told me things that a girl dont need to hear, hit me, and he was just pure evil, he turned me into someone that wasnt me, i didnt even reconized my face, i became a drug addict for 8 years, while i was with him and when i left it got worse..
everywhere i went i heard his voice and i would just snap out of no where, even in the middel of the streey, i was ignorent, and buligerent towards men for awhile
, i will always hear his voice no matter where and who i am with.
my fiance dont understand why i am the way i am, but i just cant say, because it would take alot to get me to open up my heart
to anyone.

sorry that i just rammbeled on lol, i just understand whats happeneing to you hun, and i would love to share more and give you some comfort, but i dont want you to be reading this for hours lol

good luck
and take care of yourself ok hun, there are peiole who care and are willing to help you

2007-02-05 17:26:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I have this issue with hating just about everyone as well. I take meds that are supposed to make me nicer, ha ha ha, what a laugh right? Seriously, how are chemicals introduced into my body supposed to make me nicer to anyone? Actually, the only thing they are actually good at doing is keeping me from being physically violent with people, which I have an extremely bad habit of doing. I had a pretty hard life when I was a kid, lots of stuff that I don't like to talk about to anyone, and so I have issues with trust, but I also have this thing where I think that if people have a problem with me they need to let me know about it so that I can just go ahead and kick their *** and help them get the hell over it quickly. I know everyone ssays violence doesn't solve anything but it sure makes me feel better. Therefore, lots and lots of meds. I am bi-polar, but I don't have a lot of swings, I stay pretty manic all the time, and am pretty unpredictable most of the time. There are very few people that I don't hate. Stupidity pisses me off, whiny people piss me off, old people piss me off, people with kids that don't make them behave piss me off...pretty much everyone pisses me off. There aren't enough drugs to make me deal with all these people all the time. I don't really know why you necessarily hate the world, but I understand how you feel and where you are coming from at least. It kinda sucks to feel that way sometimes don't it? Anyway, sorry I can't be of more help, but hey, if it helps and you wanna talk, you can email me if you want.

2007-02-05 17:26:38 · answer #3 · answered by stacijo531 3 · 0 0

You hate the "world" because you have not yet found any one or any belief that gives you secure evidence from them to you that your being matters. Keep seeking and you will find that individual, group or philosophy that validates you. Perhaps you haven't been giving enough of yourself, which results in THEM not understanding where you are coming from. Try again. Peace and love!

2007-02-05 17:37:44 · answer #4 · answered by Mad Mac 7 · 0 0

you need to go to a church and talk to a pastor and he will tell you to forgive others and life will be nicer...good luck.

2007-02-05 17:51:42 · answer #5 · answered by Minna 1 · 0 0

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