my boyfriend doesnt trust me anymore. he thinks im cheating.. and i've read a couple of answers on other users and it means he's cheating. but could it be tru. he keeps asking me that. and he keeps asking if if i really want to be with him and if i'm sure about it. he also lives and 1 hour 30 mins away frum me. i dont get to c him much. :( and ppl say im dum cuz he could b cheating. but he's always txting me and calling me 24/7. but now he keeps getting txt messages and fone calls cuz i can hear tha beeps when we talk on the fone. he says its his mom, or his cuzin or his best friend. this used to never happen and now its happening all the time... HELP PLEASE. tell me wut u honestly think...
2007-02-05 08:55:39 · 16 answers · asked by ~Jayda~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not sure but try and see him more,1 and a half hours is not THAT far away from someone,he might be calling you 24/7 to check up on you and keep tabs(if he has accused you of cheating)as for the phone calls don't worry too much about that he might be telling the truth but then again maybe not.but hey what can you do,i suggest just spend more time with him,and try your best to visit him more often.im sure he will stop all the crap soon.
2007-02-05 09:02:33 · answer #1 · answered by Sexy_mum24 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The 1 1/2 distance could mean he feels insecure and thinks you are cheating on him.
Next time you see him check his phone. You should know his mom's number or his cousin's If you suspect that he's the one doing the cheating.
I am curious as to why you'd want a long distance relationship if you don't get to see each other. Absence doesn't necessarily mean the heart grows founder it could also mean out of sight out of mind.
2007-02-05 17:03:12 · answer #2 · answered by Johnny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it can be one of two things...
1) he could be scared of losing you, but if he really loves you or really likes you he'd come see you more often and do little cute things for you.
2) all those little beeps you hear could explain that he's cheating on you, but it also could be that he's in town and doesn't want to run into you.
Just remember that that if you have a gut feeling in your stomach somethan isn't right! Hope it helps!
2007-02-05 17:05:52 · answer #3 · answered by chisholm18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have a luv and i live in another town like 15 to 20 minutes away and i too call her and text her like crazy and if he asks u all that its cuz hes worried u might not feel the same way about him and he doesnt want to get hurt just tell him that u love him and mean it..
2007-02-05 17:01:22 · answer #4 · answered by craz3_boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, the question is this. is he really the right guy? think about it. you live 1hr30min from him. yyou guys seem to be a little more distant and when you talk, NOW, it could be his other gf he has been dating for months! but if you were to pick, are you sure this is really best for u? you could always dump him and get a closer boyfriend.(one you can keep an eye on)
2007-02-05 17:01:42 · answer #5 · answered by The Sun's Competition. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly think his behavior is controlling, and you should end the relationship, whether he is cheating or not. His constant calling, lack of trust, and accusations are becoming abusive. Find a boyfriend who is kind and trustworthy and respects you and you can respect in return.
2007-02-05 17:12:04 · answer #6 · answered by healing wings 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would confront him about it. It could definitely be true that he is cheating, and honestly, I wouldn't doubt it. OR, you could be sneaky and check the recieved calls list on his cell phone, and the inbox and outbox for text messages, but it's always better to be honest first. Good Luck!
2007-02-05 17:04:53 · answer #7 · answered by Farmer Chic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he keeps asking you because he is guilty of doing it himself. he texts you and calls you 24/7 because if he knows where you are and what you are doing there is less of a chance he will run into you with another girl. unless you are leaving something out of the story and you gave him some sort of reason to believe you are cheating. it definitly seems like he is.
2007-02-05 16:59:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would guess by the things you are just trying to not see all the signs and what they point to...I would plan a surprise trip to see him...Make it fit into your schedule...All else when you do see him..if he falls asleep check his phone: recent calls, past text's....this will at least give you some answers...good luck
2007-02-05 17:01:05 · answer #9 · answered by Dawn D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront him next time he says it.
When he says it, sit down with him to have a serious talk. Say, "I don't appreciate you assuming or questioning my integrity. I have talked to professionals about this, and they state that a person sees a quality in a person close to them that they have in themself."
"So I'll answer one final time, NO I am NOT cheating". Now I'll ask one time, "are you cheating"?
2007-02-05 17:02:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋