things are going very good between us. He gets along with my daughter and everything. He's talking marriage. My best friends tell me that if he's the one then go for it and not worry about tradition far as dating for years on end. I can honestly say that I love him. What should I do?
2007-02-05 08:52:03 · 20 answers · asked by pooh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are completely comfortable with him, can tell him anything, can picture you being with him forever, and trust him, I'd say go for it! that's great that he's good with your child. Sounds like a keeper to me! Sometimes things happen fast for a reason. I met my husband in Aug 2005 and moved in with him in Dec 2005. We got married and now have our first child. We love eachother more than anything.
Good luck, and I wish you the best!
2007-02-05 08:57:49 · answer #1 · answered by Huliganjetta 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your relationship is healthy, you love him, he loves you, and he is good with your daughter, then he seems like a very good person to call "the one." don't worry about his age so much; consider more him as a person and how he treats you and your daughter. if everything checks out good and you two are in love, then there should be nothing stopping you from getting married. if you're unsure because of a tradition or whatever, then get to know him better and date him a little longer before you agree to marry him. good luck!
2007-02-05 16:57:22 · answer #2 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, thats a tough one. Well I dated a guy that was 5 years older than me and things were great between us. So if you honestly love him go for it. This might sound cheesy but just listen to your heart, and if you honestly trust him you'll have no worries!
2007-02-05 16:58:17 · answer #3 · answered by chisholm18 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I myself am dating someone nine years older than me, and I love him very much. We haven't talked marriage, but it's still kind of early. Do what you think is right, but discuss EVERYTHING. Religion, politics, child rearing, money, you should know who you are marrying and why you both get a long so well; you know?
2007-02-05 16:57:10 · answer #4 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When my parents married, my dad was 24 and my mom was 18. They were married for 56 years, until his death. If you honestly love him, start planning that wedding. And may I be the first to congratulate both of you?
2007-02-05 16:58:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. Age really doesn't mean anything once you get past that jail-bait stage anyway. My hubby and I are 10 years apart and we've been together for 11 awesome years and counting. My bf and her hubby are also exactly 10 years apart and their relationship is just as great and strong.
2007-02-05 16:56:53 · answer #6 · answered by mcm51578 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your friend she might be right just go for it and see how things work out because you said that things are going very good between y'all so stay with him.
2007-02-05 16:56:40 · answer #7 · answered by lil boosie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marry him if you love him. 8 years older is not a big deal.
2007-02-05 16:55:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go a head if trust him and you like to spending time time. I dont think 8 years really matter that much.
2007-02-05 16:55:41 · answer #9 · answered by Rocky 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares that he is 8 yrs older. That most likely means that he has his s*** together and ready to settle down.
2007-02-05 16:54:58 · answer #10 · answered by bnelly05 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋